Acquaintance depends on chance, not demanding, getting along depends on tolerance, not complaining
A university professor accompanied his wife to the market to buy vegetables. The vegetable vendor asked, "Do you know how this garlic is grown?" The professor replied, "I don't know." The sesame oil seller asked, "Do you know how this oil is ground? Is it?" The professor said, "I don't know." The two laughed disdainfully: "Then what do you know?" The professor said, "I know it's not easy for everyone." Obviously, this professor is difficult to be a confidant with the vegetable vendor, and he has a lot of dealings At most, it’s just acquaintance, so it’s easy to get familiar with it. It’s enough to buy a few more dishes, but it’s difficult to know each other. No matter how many dishes you buy, it won’t help. When people reach middle age and pass the age of forty, they must understand that there are some things You can't force it, you can't be demanding, and it's useless to rush:
- Acquaintance depends on chance, and cannot be exacted - don't feel too much about the past you lost. When the chance comes, your acquaintance with him will come naturally. In the mortal world, you can meet and know each other by fate, even if you meet him in a hurry. It was in the past, and it is also an opportunity given to us by God. If we can get to know each other and become good friends in the end, isn't it also a great blessing for middle-aged people? If it is lost for any reason, it is also due to lack of opportunity, and there is no need to force it, let alone be demanding. When a middle-aged person has three or five old friends who can talk about everything, drink tea, play chess, and brag, it should be a kind of How happy and unrestrained, so, acquaintance depends on fate, you can't force it, you can't be demanding, it's natural to come, and it's natural to go, this is the chance, the fate you can't force.
Get along with tolerance, not complaining - everyone has intractable knots and difficult songs to sing, every family has difficult to read Buddhist scriptures and difficult emotions, blindly demanding and critical, no matter how noisy it is, it is useless. It will also be lost very quickly; it is not easy for anyone, laughing at others is equivalent to lowering yourself. When people pass middle age, they must know how to get along with tolerance, to understand each other with humility and sincerity. ; The road ahead is unpredictable and complicated, and the mind is divided into three or seven points. How can everyone take advantage of their own hearts; getting along with people is an art. When people pass middle age, they must learn to be good at people, tolerate people, and make people silent. The sound of the voice distinguishes people, so get along with tolerance, not one's own food, not demanding, to forgive others and to forgive others, to be tolerant when the heart is calm; it is easy to get along, it is difficult to get along, it is easy to get along, it is difficult to see through, and it is easy to be happy with each other. It will be difficult for a long time. Let him go if he wants to go.
Knowing each other depends on wisdom, don’t be in a hurry - acquaintance is not easy, you must know how to cherish it, and knowing each other requires wisdom, so don’t regret your inadvertently making friends when you are young, you must know that friends are a lifetime thing, and people who have passed through wine and meat. , can't stand the baptism of time, after a long time you know yourself and abandon it; the love between people is like spicy wine, drink, get drunk, put it for a long time, the more mellow we taste, the more delicious it is, When it gets more and more spicy, we naturally don’t drink it; watch people look at wealth, a gentleman loves money, and take it in a proper way; use people to look at difficulties, and be calm in order to be steady; After knowing people and watching wine, it is difficult for those who let themselves go. Therefore, from acquaintance to acquaintance, it takes years to baptize, and there is no rush or worry. Use your own wisdom to make this glass of wine more mellow and tasteful.