When encountering the pursuit of a married male colleague, learn these four coping skills, which are both not offending and effective
There should be a lot of beautiful girls who have more or less met the pursuit of some married men, especially girls who have just graduated and stepped into the big dye vat of society. When you just entered a relatively large company, because you look good, you will have suitors, and some of them are your superiors. At this time, girls are still a little ignorant about things like feelings. As long as others treat her well, even if they know that the other party already has a family, they will still fall into it unknowingly and cannot extricate themselves, and do some regretful things. . And if you happen to be in this kind of time, you can refer to the following methods, which should be able to help you.
- Don't have too much contact with married men
Under normal circumstances, girls can feel the pursuit of others by others, whether it is obvious or not, this may be the sixth sense of girls. And if this person happens to be a man who already has a family, then the first thing we have to do is to keep a distance from him and not have too much contact. Being liked and pursued by colleagues in the workplace is not a big deal in itself, but I am worried that married men will also have this idea. And most of these people know how to impress a little girl, so most girls will fall into it. But when we find that this kind of situation occurs from the beginning, we should choose to keep a distance from the other party and show our rejection, so that we will keep ourselves away from it.
- Do not frequently contact with male colleagues who have families on social software
Nowadays, whether in the workplace or in life, social software such as WeChat and QQ have become an indispensable part of us. Will definitely be added as a friend on one of them. Although there is very little real alone time in the workplace, it can be done on social software. Therefore, if we find that married men often take the initiative to chat with us, it means that the other party has intentionally pursued you. At this time, what we should do is try not to reply to the other party alone on such social software, and we can specifically go to ask him if he needs help in reality, which will also allow you to avoid this unnecessary trouble.
- Don't have a separate space with a family man
In the workplace, if there are male colleagues who are pursuing you, it can already show that your relationship is already very familiar. Maybe it's because you eat together at certain times and help each other at work, thus making the other person feel like you're giving him the illusion that he can pursue you. And once you find that the other party has already had this idea, or has put it into action. Then you should get your relationship further apart as soon as possible. Because the other party is a family member, if you continue to eat alone and go on business trips, it will have a bad impact on both of you. What's more, he is a married man.
- Girls are in the process of pursuing male colleagues
Don't be hesitant to deal with the pursuit of your colleagues, you must not hesitate, and sometimes you must refuse decisively and express your firm view on this matter. When many young women are pursued by married colleagues, they are embarrassed to reject them directly, which will cause them to suffer losses, especially with their male bosses. Many times, because they are always embarrassed to speak out, they will make them suffer. These male suitors pursued further, becoming more and more excessive, and finally made themselves suffer. Therefore, when a girl encounters a male colleague pursuing her, she must resolutely show her refusal attitude, and do not leave room for these people to develop further and let them retreat in spite of difficulties.