Social Rule: Never be the most talkative person in the dinner party
Xiaohui went to a dinner party. Most of the people in the dinner party are familiar to him, but most of the other people in the dinner party do not know each other. Relying on his familiarity with everyone, Xiaohui began to talk more without realizing it, basically from the beginning to the end. Xiaohui felt very happy at the time, but after returning, he regretted that he had said too much, and even felt the strange eyes of others. Today's topic we're going to talk about is: Never be the most talkative person in the dinner party. Let's analyze it below.
- Talking too much will make others hate it
The dinner party is a platform for everyone to communicate. Everyone finally got together and wanted to have a good exchange. But if a person talks too much, it will affect other people's communication, and it will take up a lot of time. In those uncomfortable dinners, there is usually a chatter. Others may be embarrassed to say something at the time, but they must be very annoying inside. When attending a dinner party, you must take care of everyone's communication and expressions, and don't keep talking in a pretentious way, it will only damage your image.
- Talking too much, it is easy to reveal the trump card
Sometimes some strangers get together, and everyone wants to become friends through communication. If you talk too much, people will find out your trump card, which is not conducive to future exchanges. For example, some people like to show off their relationship with others at dinner parties, and keep saying that they and so-and-so are iron buddies, and so-and-so are classmates, etc. People get to know you quickly, not only about your social hierarchy, but also about your relationships fully. Talking too much will make you lose your inner meaning and be completely open to others.
- No matter your status, don't be the one who talks the most
How much some people talk depends on who they are talking to. If he sees that there are people who are better than himself in the dinner, he will be silent; if he sees that there is no one of his own in the dinner, he will talk endlessly, a feeling of condescension. Such people are very annoying to others. No matter what dinner party you are participating in, you must respect everyone present. Talking too much is a form of disrespect to others. It's okay to communicate more with others, but remember, don't be the one who talks the most.
If you go to a dinner party, just remember to never be the one who talks the most. Speaking moderately is self-confidence and respect for others. Dear friends, what do you think of this article, please leave a message to exchange it.