My colleague rubbed my car for a month, I euphemistically hinted that the refusal could not be successful, and the next day I received a WeChat message and got confused
My colleague rubbed my car for a month, I euphemistically hinted that the refusal could not be successful, and the next day I received a WeChat message and got confused
When we work in the workplace, we should not only complete the tasks within our job responsibilities, but also know how to deal with colleagues. Because the current social development and changes are rapid, it is difficult for one person to catch up with this change, so many companies now do their work in the form of teamwork. In such an environment, it is difficult for us not to communicate with the people around us.
When communicating with colleagues, we must know how to maintain an appropriate distance from them, which can not only avoid going too far to be isolated, but also prevent conflicts from going too close, so that we can live in harmony with colleagues and ensure that Take care of your legitimate rights.
- Issue an invitation
Zhou Zhang once violated his legitimate rights and interests because he did not know how to maintain an appropriate distance. Zhou Zhang has been working in the current company for more than a year. Because he lives far away from the company, after being late for several times, Zhou Zhang finally endured the pain. A scooter.
And since getting this scooter, Zhou Zhang is not only not easy to be late for get off work, but also very comfortable to go back to work. He no longer has to work hard to squeeze dumplings on the bus, which makes Zhou Zhang feel very happy. But it didn't take long for Zhou Zhang's mood to deteriorate again. Not because the car broke down, but because there were more people in the passenger seat.
After get off work one day, Zhou Zhang worked overtime because of something, and a colleague happened to work overtime with him. After get off work, the two chatted for a while. After chatting, I found out that the community they both lived in was next to each other. Because it was too late, Zhou Zhang offered to drive the colleague home, and the colleague happily agreed.
But what Ling Zhouzhang didn't expect was that this invitation would cost him a month. And Zhou Zhang also saw that he was a colleague from the same department of the company. He looked down and saw him, so he was too embarrassed to reject this colleague. But this colleague rubbed the car for a month, and he didn't mention the need to pay for the gas. Zhou Zhang felt a little uncomfortable.
It wasn't because she was reluctant to pay for the gas, but she did it out of good intentions, but she didn't say anything, and even said thank you only once. It was as if Zhou Zhang sent her off work every day as a matter of course. That's what made Zhou Zhang feel unhappy. Seeing his colleague rubbing against the car every day as if nothing had happened, Zhou Zhang couldn't bear it any longer.
- Implied refusal
When he was driving back with his colleague one day after get off work, Zhou Zhang said to his colleague: "Xiao Wu, I have something to do recently. During this time, I have to go to my parents' house after get off work. I need to take a long detour and stay at my parents' house for a while. Go home. So I won't send you home after that." When the colleague heard this, his face became a little unhappy, and there was a faint feeling of showing his face to Zhou Zhang.
But not long after, my colleague said, "It's fine, I can wait. When you go, I'll wait in the car. You can take me back when you come back." Zhou Zhang felt a little speechless when he heard this, so he went back to the car again. Said: "My wife manages me strictly. She has been carrying you for the past few days. My wife also has opinions. I will not carry you in the future to avoid misunderstandings."
Originally, Zhou Zhang thought that as long as he said this, the other party would have nothing to do, but what he didn't expect was that this colleague actually said that he was going to talk to his wife, so that there would be no misunderstanding. Zhou Zhang euphemistically hinted twice that the refusal would not be successful, and he was not in a good mood, so he did not speak again. Just when Zhou Zhang was thinking about what to do next, Zhou Zhang received a WeChat message from his colleague the next day.
- Receive the message
At a glance, Zhou Zhang was confused. It turned out that this colleague gave Zhou Zhang a red envelope of 50 yuan, saying that this was the fuel bill for a while, and that he would trouble Zhou Zhang to take care of her after commuting to and from get off work, and she would wait at the gate of the community tomorrow morning.
Zhou Zhang was so angry that he was trying to find a way to keep her from rubbing against the car, but she was fine. After sending 50 yuan, she wanted to pick her up for work tomorrow morning. Zhou Zhang immediately blocked the colleague, didn't pick her up the next morning, and quickly left after get off work, letting the colleague speak nasty things behind him, and completely ignored the colleague.