I worked as a free driver for my female colleague for 3 months. I heard her talk once. I said: I will go by myself next time
I worked as a free driver for my female colleague for 3 months. I heard her talk once. I said: I will go by myself next time
When we work in the workplace, we must not only know how to do our job well, but also how to get along with colleagues around us. Because only by getting along well with the colleagues around, the work will be smoother, the communication with each other will be smooth, and the faster the handover of work, the more efficient the work will be. And if we want to get along well with our colleagues, we must know how to maintain a proper distance and not do some things, so as to avoid conflicts with our colleagues and the relationship will become worse.
Xiao Chen has experienced such a bad experience. Because Xiao Chen has not been in the company for a long time and has just become a regular, he is not very familiar with many of the company's businesses. But Xiao Chen still really wants to grow and develop in this position, so he studies very hard. But for some problems, it is easy for people to get into a dead end, and it is difficult to find a solution.
Once, Xiao Chen received a difficult task, so he worked overtime in the company and wanted to complete it as soon as possible. But Xiao Chen encountered a more difficult problem and couldn't think of a solution for a while. Seeing the time passing by, but there was nothing he could do, Xiao Chen felt very uncomfortable and became a little irritable. At this time, Xiaofang, a female colleague next to her, came over to take a look.
Xiaofang has been in this company for more than two years, so she has rich experience in handling these businesses, and she quickly found a solution to the problem. With the help of Xiaofang, Xiao Chen quickly completed this task. Then Xiao Chen thanked Xiaofang very gratefully, and chatted with Xiaofang downstairs.
Seeing that the sky was getting darker outside, Xiao Chen asked where his female colleague lived, and found that it was not far from his own address, so he said he wanted to send Xiaofang home. After a moment of hesitation, Xiaofang happily agreed. After Xiao Chen sent Xiao Fang home, he found that he was not far from his residence, just on the way to work, so he only needed to go around a bit. So he said that Xiaofang can often take his car to and from get off work.
With the passage of time, because of Xiao Chen's hard work and Xiao Fang's guidance from time to time, Xiao Chen has made rapid progress. After a month, he has made good profits for the company and won the attention and favor of the leaders. , the leaders also began to hand over more important tasks to Xiao Chen. During this period, Xiao Chen and Xiao Fang became more and more familiar. Xiao Chen began to carry Xiao Fang to and from get off work every day, and did not ask Xiao Fang for a penny of gas.
After 3 months like this, Xiao Chen's work ability has become stronger and stronger, and the leaders appreciate Xiao Chen more and more. The work for Xiao Chen is some core tasks. Xiao Chen is also very happy, and he is more motivated to work. At the same time, as his abilities increase, Xiao Chen no longer needs to ask Xiao Fang questions, but Xiao Chen still picks Xiao Fang up and down every day.
But once again, when Xiao Chen came out of the toilet during his lunch break, he heard Xiao Fang talking to another female colleague next door. Originally, Xiao Chen was not interested in listening, but because he heard his name vaguely, Xiao Chen decided to listen to it. The conversation he heard made Xiao Chen very angry.
It turned out that Xiaofang and the female colleague said that the reason why Xiaochen can achieve such achievements is because of her help. Without her help, Xiaochen would have no progress. Now Xiaochen picks her up to and from get off work every day, It's all right, and Xiao Chen should always pick him up in the future.
Talking, Xiaofang went out of the toilet, just saw Xiao Chen standing at the door of the toilet, and immediately stopped. Xiao Chen was very angry at this time, so he said a few words to Xiaofang: "Walk by yourself next time." Then he turned his head and left, leaving Xiaofang behind, his face burning hot.
- Don’t talk about others behind their backs
From this story, the first revelation we can know is that don’t talk about others behind their backs, especially talking about others’ bad words. Such behavior will not only make the person being talked about hate us, but it will also make others lose their trust in us. Because we can talk about others in front of you now, we may talk about you in front of others next time. Such people are not credible.
- Don't be too "self-righteous"
The second point is not to be too "self-righteous". Xiaofang in this story is just too self-righteous. Although Xiaofang's growth was helped by Xiaofang, it did not account for all of it. This is inseparable from Xiaochen's hard work. At the same time, she can't take other people's Kindness to help as a matter of course, doing so can easily arouse the resentment of others.