You must be careful with people who call you brothers at the first meeting
Networking is a very complicated thing because you meet all kinds of people. Some people are very sincere, some people are very hypocritical; some people are very enthusiastic, and some people are very cold. Some people call you brothers as soon as they meet, which makes you feel like it's too late to meet, but soon finds out that you are not the same. The topic we are going to talk about today is: You must be careful with people who call you brothers at the first meeting. Let's analyze it below.
- People who call themselves brothers at the first meeting are hot and cold
Such people give people the feeling that they are very enthusiastic. After seeing you, they will greet you with all kinds of greetings and courtesies, making you feel as if you have met an old friend. But the two sides always have to talk about certain topics after the courtesy, and at this time you will find that the other party has no interest. His enthusiasm is just a habit. It is like this when he meets everyone. For him, this kind of courtesy is like shaking hands. After entering the topic, he is not so enthusiastic. After meeting more and more, it gradually became colder.
- I call you brothers at the first meeting, often because you have something to offer
Sometimes, the other party calls you brothers for a purpose. The other party already has a certain understanding of you and knows that you are useful in a certain way. Brotherhood with you is a way to get closer quickly, so as to find an opportunity to make some requests of you. If the other party is just a normal request, and it is within your ability, then it's okay to do a favor. But many times, the other party's request will make you very embarrassed. So, when you encounter such a person, you must seriously think about how to deal with it.
- People who call themselves brothers when they meet for the first time are difficult to make friends with
He calls you brother at the first meeting, you can imagine how many "brothers" he will have and how deep his relationship with "brothers" will be. Such people are mostly sociable, but to him you are all "connections", not friends at all. Such people are often very realistic, with extensive connections and resources. His approach is to quickly meet more people, and then find useful people in these people. Such people are hard to get along with.