You can keep the friends in your original circle only if you keep going higher
Xiao Wang used to be a salesperson in one company, but later moved to another company to continue sales. Xiaohui also joined Xiaowang, but Xiaohui went to another company as a department manager. Later, all the former colleagues had close contact with Xiaohui and often had dinner together, but few people contacted Xiao Wang. This puzzled Xiao Wang. The topic we are going to talk about today is: You can only keep friends in your original circle if you go higher. Let's analyze it below.
- Going high alone means more social value
In interpersonal communication, people are more willing to interact with people with high social value, because it may bring them more opportunities and resources. Going to a high place alone means a wider world and more social value. The former colleague would of course prefer to associate with it, especially if he was still in the same industry. Communicate with him, you can not only get more information, but also learn more industry knowledge. People standing high are always easy to see.
- If a person does not get along well, it is inevitable to "go for the tea to cool off"
If a person does not get along well, just like Xiao Wang, he has no development and leaves the company, then his social value will naturally not increase, and other people certainly lack the motivation to actively interact with him. And once he left, he had little or no reason to communicate with his former colleagues. Then there will inevitably be a scene of "people taking tea to cool off". For Xiao Wang, this is human indifference; for former colleagues, it may be just natural forgetting.
- If you want to keep friends in your original circle, you have to keep working hard
Some people leave the original environment, but still can't let go of the original circle, but find that it is very difficult to continue to maintain close contact. In fact, there is only one way for him, and that is to constantly strive to improve. As long as you keep going higher, even if you spend little time maintaining relationships, you can still keep your old circles. Because the original circle is also proud of you. Don't complain about the reality of the society, if you don't want people to have a cold tea, then keep working hard.