The dining table sees the character, the wine table sees the pattern, the smart people make friends through wine, and the stupid people are timid
In the workplace and official business, people inevitably have to put on a layer of vigilance, and dinner is the easiest and most undisguised occasion to guard against. Talk heart to heart, exchange cups, and your characteristics will be revealed to your friends. Your character, your wine, is a portrayal of your character.
- Alcohol affects oneself and those around him
After a few glasses of wine, those who don't toast will toast the rich first. Not to mention the wealthy and influential people, middle-income people, and poor classmates who saw him. It's really hard to treat each other with equal respect. If some students have no family background, but can achieve great success in career. There is no doubt that worthy character plays a key role. If you can let go of the concept of money and put your feelings first, you must be a person who values feelings and is worthy of making friends. The character of such a person can often stand the test. After all, what temptation is greater than money?
- Drink in moderation, do not drink for the sake of drinking
Although the dining table is small, it is the place where the character is most exposed. The behavior of drinking can reveal a person's self-cultivation. Those who are drunk and ranting must be people with corrupt character. People in the overall situation use dinner to achieve their goals. They communicated over dinner. Wine is just a concoction of the atmosphere, and those who are timid and afraid of things will be timid. At parties, they always sat in the corner and worked hard to eat. Irregular people are rude when they eat and rude when they drink. After dinner, they were paralyzed by alcohol and completely lost their sanity.
At the dinner table, those who disregard etiquette and eat by themselves must have no culture and lack foresight; those who mess around must have no pattern and moral problems.
- Learn what to eat and how to eat
Ordinary people don't pay attention to the food in front of them. He respects the differences between his friends and himself. He is not demanding. He knows tolerance and restraint. Some people say that drinking should not exceed six points drunk, eating should not exceed seven points full, and lovers should not exceed eight points. But most people are often drunk, gluttonous, and then love fools who take advantage of others, and it's easy to explain: Facing the temptation of delicious food, people often forget advice and can't hold back their desires.
I remember reading such small stories. A wealthy businessman took his son to a high-end restaurant for dinner. He ordered a lot of expensive dishes and only a small portion of each dish was left on the plate. Father only ordered two delicious meals and the dishes were clean. The son asked his father: Why don't you take more? This way you can taste tastier food.
The father replied solemnly: Because I don't have a rich father like you, every penny of my money is hard-earned and I can't waste it. Furthermore, even if you can eat and take whatever you want, I have to remind myself to only take enough to eat and not to be too greedy.
A person who can shut up at the dinner table must be a person who knows how to control himself and has a big picture. He must be a reliable person who knows how to stop himself from losing his temper and has a high level of self-discipline.
Fourth, respect the dinner party, respect the people at the dinner party, is to respect yourself
The ups and downs at the dinner table can only be truly felt by those who are in it. Some people do not regard money and official titles as their own values, but put them on the table as capital to show off. The more people let go of their attitudes, the more respected they are.
As the ancient Chinese once warned us: those who respect others will always respect them
When eating with people outside your family, you must properly restrain your selfish nature. We should think from the perspective of others. We should eat less and see more. Always understand the thoughts and behaviors of the people around you, and be yourself in a stable and calm way, without being prominent or provoking, so as to win respect and friendship.
A person's extraordinary demeanor is hidden in a small meal, and a person's character is revealed in every move of the meal. He regards eating as a kind of social interaction, and cares for the people around him through the meal.
In the vast crowd, very few people can sit down and eat with us. They give their sincerity and sincerity, so please cherish those who dine with us, and let deliciousness and virtue coexist.