Social Rules: Don't take small things too seriously, you will lose if you take them too seriously
The company asked everyone to write an essay on the next step of development, and Xiaohui wrote one seriously and handed it in. I originally thought that the department would select it by itself, but I didn't expect that this call for papers would be uploaded to the Internet for everyone to vote for the excellent articles. Xiaohui still has some confidence in his writing level, but the online selection does not look at this, it only looks at who has more people. Xiaohui has no advantage in this.
Xiaohui thought that the company's selection method was unfair, so he asked the company to reflect his views on various objections. However, the company did not intend to change the selection method, so Xiaohui requested that his article be withdrawn. Because of this incident, Xiaohui and many colleagues were very unhappy. But later found out that no one in the company took this essay seriously. Basically, no one went to canvass for votes, and there was no election result. Xiaohui felt that he was taking this matter too seriously, which made him embarrassed instead.
Xiaodong also encountered a similar thing. The company asked each department to recommend an excellent employee, and gave the conditions and selection process. Xiaodong found that under such conditions, only three people in his department met the conditions. According to the selection process, we must first prepare the deeds materials. He stayed up all night to write the materials, just waiting for the selection at the meeting the next day. On the second day, some managers called everyone for a meeting and asked everyone for their opinions. Most of my colleagues said they would recommend the manager. In fact, Xiaodong knew that the manager did not meet the conditions at all. But no one brought it up and it passed. Xiaodong's materials naturally did not dare to take them out.
There are a lot of similar little things in life, and you take it too seriously and it looks very different. The main reason is that your judgment of the situation is not in line with others. What should I do when such a thing happens? First of all, you don't express your attitude right away, but wait for things to change and look at other people's attitudes about it. If you are in a hurry to express your thoughts, then you have no room for turning back. Secondly, you don't need to be so sensitive, you can feel a little thicker. Some things are not that important in themselves, and it will be bad if you care too much.
People who do things seriously have many advantages. We advocate doing things seriously. The things mentioned in this article are all small things in work and life, and your attitude is different from others. If you are such a serious person, if you persevere, everyone will accept you. Next time something like this happens, I will take your attitude into consideration. Of course, you need to face some pressure early on.