Social rules: Don't just bow your head to eat food in a dinner party, you must know how to seize the opportunity
Dinner is an important social platform, and many people like to meet friends at dinner. But some people are always afraid of being tricked by others in the dinner party, so they try to reduce their speech in the dinner party as much as possible. When someone invited him, he went to participate, but when he went, he just bowed his head to eat, and occasionally perfunctory. Sit until dinner is over and then go home. For him, attending dinner is a mission, and after completing the mission, he goes home. The topic we are going to talk about today is: Don’t just bow your head to eat in the dinner, but know how to seize the opportunity. Let's analyze it below.
- Your perfunctory dialogue at dinner is your image in the hearts of others
Any dinner, if you decide to go, you must take it seriously. If you just wanted to perfunctory, you might as well not go. No matter how reluctant you are to go, or how reluctant you are to go, it is only your own heart activity, and other people in the dinner party will not understand. In the dinner, everyone only sees you foolishly bowing your head to eat, and when someone asks you three questions, you answer nonsensically with two perfunctory ones. What others can see and remember is your image. Having met in this dinner, do you think others are still willing to associate with you?
- If there is information you want to know, follow up the chat in time
Participating in a dinner party has two functions, one is to expand contacts, and the other is to obtain information. The conversations of everyone at the dinner party will give you information that is usually difficult to obtain. These seemingly random information may be of great help to you. If someone mentions the information you need, but no one follows up, then the information is mentioned and it's over. At this time, you should take the initiative to follow up the chat and get the information you want easily and casually. For example, someone mentions that the company is hiring and you want to know about it, so take the initiative to ask something about the recruiting.
- If there are people you want to associate with at the dinner party, take the initiative to associate with them
If there is someone you really want to meet at the dinner party, then this dinner party is just an opportunity. You must find the right time and take the initiative to communicate with each other. The dinner party provides you with such a good platform, you should seize it. Even people who meet for the first time at a dinner party are open-minded. If you go to other places specifically to find the other party, the other party will be very wary of you. Some people want to say that the reason why I don't speak is because there is no one I want to associate with at the dinner party. Then what are you doing at this dinner party? It's always good to have one more friend, and if you have the opportunity, make more friends.