Why are you slowly alienated from your original circle?
Everyone has a relatively fixed social circle. Have you ever found yourself estranged from your original circle at some point? For example: everyone else in the circle went to the dinner, but no one notified you; everyone else in the circle knew about a certain news, but no one told you. You find yourself slowly being marginalized, even abandoned by your old circle. The topic we are going to talk about today is: why are you slowly alienated from your original circle? Let's analyze it below.
- You’re not keeping up with your friends
The reason why you can form a common circle is because there are relatively similar concepts and topics. But everyone is constantly changing and developing. Maybe other people have made a lot of progress in recent years, and they have even broken away from their original social class. And you haven't kept up with the pace of others, and you're still stuck at the same stage. At this time, your ideas can no longer keep up with others, and you cannot find more common topics. You have a hard time forming a circle with others.
- You don’t pay attention to the interaction with others
Even close friends need to move around regularly. Today he invites you to dinner, tomorrow you invite him to drink tea, don't forget to greet each other during Chinese New Year and festivals, and often exchange some small gifts. The usual interaction is the bond of friendship. If you never take the initiative to interact with others, the relationship between others and you will gradually become estranged. Everyone else in the circle is constantly interacting, and you never want to be involved. After so long, you will naturally be alienated from this circle.
- You have no real friends in the circle
There is another very important reason for the phenomenon that you are gradually alienated by the circle: you have no real friends in this circle at all. You and others are only temporarily together because of a common need, and you don't have a real friendship with anyone in your circle. When the external situation changes, your common needs may disappear. At this time, it will be difficult for you to find a reason to get together again. So you are slowly alienated from this circle.
The above is the reason why you are gradually alienated from the original circle. When such a situation occurs, you must think clearly whether you want to stay in this circle or have lost your relationship with this circle. If you want to be friends with others, you need to work hard and be proactive. If it really feels irreparable, find a new world. Dear friends, what do you think of the statement in this article, let's leave a message and exchange it.