When people reach middle age, the more diligent they are in three aspects, the worse they are
When a person reaches middle age, he has to obey his old age in the workplace, because his career has reached the "twilight period". Even if he struggles hard, he can't hide his shortcomings in front of young and energetic young people. Some people are not convinced and struggle on their own. In the past 20 or 30 years, he has not made a name for himself, so at this time he has been very diligent in these three aspects, but the end result is that he has become even more miserable.
- Diligently make up for shortcomings instead of exploiting expertise.
In middle age, if you work hard in the wrong direction, you may only swerve on the wrong path. Some people think that they cannot succeed because their weaknesses have not been supplemented, so they try their best to make up for their shortcomings but neglect to give full play to themselves. If you give up your strengths, give up your own expertise, and give up your own advantages, the most direct consequence is that your professionalism is not reflected. In the workplace, leaders cannot see your strengths and highlights, but your shortcomings often fail to make breakthroughs. , eventually became a mediocre, useless person.
Second, the diligent development of ineffective personal connections.
In middle age, whether it is your life trajectory or your career path, it is basically determined, and there will be no more ups and downs. When we are young, we think that there are as many friends as possible, but In middle age, if you aimlessly meet some useless personal connections and develop some useless social relationships, it will not be of much help to your life, just like alcoholic friends and general friends, These connections will only make you add meaningless entertainment and waste time and energy.
Three, diligent meddling.
When people reach middle age, they slow down and use the extra leisure time to spend more time with their families, exercise more, and cultivate their mind and body. , especially in the conflict between colleagues in the workplace, and in the sensitive events in the workplace, in order to brush their own sense of existence and show their "loyalty", this kind of diligence will only make I lose more in the end.