Social rules: Why do you forward messages for him in the circle of friends, but he doesn't forward it to you?
Xiaohui often receives WeChat messages from Xiaodong and asks him to help forward some messages in the circle of friends. Xiaodong is a housekeeping service company, with a wide range of business and a large volume of business, so I ask Xiaohui to forward it from time to time. Xiaohui also wanted to do a little business later, so he wanted to promote it in the circle of friends. He sent a message to Xiaodong, hoping that Xiaodong would help forward it, but he didn't think that Xiaodong was unreasonable at all. After the meeting, Xiaohui asked Xiaodong if he saw the message. Xiaodong smiled and said, "Can my circle of friends be the same as yours? Can I forward it casually?" This made Xiaohui very angry. The topic we are going to talk about today is: Why do you forward messages for him in the circle of friends, but he does not forward it to you? Let's analyze it below.
- Different people have different values in the circle of friends
Objectively speaking, the value of each person's circle of friends is different. Xiaodong's business is very big, and WeChat is full of people with small business achievements. Not only the level is higher, but the number is also more. And Xiaohui's WeChat is basically some working-class people. Due to the limited social scope, Xiaohui has only a few hundred WeChat friends. Xiaodong thought that Xiaohui's circle of friends was different from his own, and would not forward Xiaohui's information casually. I believe that everyone has encountered similar things in life. You forward it to him but he refuses to forward it to you.
Second, forwarding information is more because of human affection
But Xiaodong didn't forward it to Xiaohui because the quality of his circle of friends was higher than that of Xiaohui, which is obviously wrong. Xiaohui forwarded it to Xiaodong many times, and did not expect Xiaodong to give anything in return, it was all because of human feelings. However, Xiaodong refused to forward it because he considered it from a utilitarian point of view, and felt that it would be a loss for him to forward it. This attitude is undesirable. If you trouble others, don't be afraid that others will trouble you. Although you may have more resources, you should also pay back what you owe others.
- Those who only let you forward but do not forward to you are not allowed to forward
The interaction between people should not only exchange resources, but also respect each other emotionally. On the surface, Xiaodong regards Xiaohui as a friend, but in fact he doesn't take him to heart. After this incident, Xiaohui decided not to forward information to Xiaodong again, and Xiaodong didn't have the embarrassment to let Xiaohui forward it again. Those who only let you retweet but don't repost to you are selfish and don't treat you as an equal friend, so you can't make friends. If you meet someone like this, be aware of this.