Social rules: the phone rings for a few seconds before answering the phone, wait for what others say before answering
In social networking, some people, in order to show their cheerfulness, answer the phone as soon as they ring, reply to the WeChat message of others as soon as they arrive, and agree with others as soon as they finish talking. Although this seems more forthright, it is not necessarily the best way to deal with it. The topic we are going to talk about today is: the phone rings for a few seconds before answering the phone, and what other people say wait a while before answering. Let's analyze it in detail.
- Ring the phone for a few seconds and then answer it, give the other party time to prepare, and give yourself time to think
The polite way to answer the phone is to wait for the phone to ring twice before answering, which will give the other party time to adjust their status. Just imagine, you call someone, and the other party answers immediately after the call is made. Do you feel a sudden feeling? Waiting a few seconds is also to give yourself some time to think about coping. When you see who is calling, you can first think about what he is looking for and how you should answer it. Although the time is short, it will make your response more calm. Of course, the waiting time should be controlled in a few seconds, and it would be impolite if it is too long.
- After talking about other people's affairs, you will be more thorough after thinking about it and then agreeing
When someone is looking for you, you must listen carefully to what the other party has to say, instead of busy agreeing without thinking. You need to think about whether you can do what the other party says, and whether you can do it well. If you do this, what resistance will you encounter and what impact will it have on yourself? Make sure you can help the other person before agreeing. If you agree without considering the actual situation, and the result is not completed in the end, it will give people a very unreliable impression and will make you lose a lot of points. Thinking about it before agreeing, it also seems that he is serious about things.
- Wait a minute, your time is more precious, and your promise is more valuable
The last point is important. You pick up the phone as soon as it rings, proving that you are now in a state of nothingness. You will find that a busy person will be respected, and a person who is always idle will only make others feel that your time is worthless. As soon as someone has finished talking to you, you agree with your mouth, which will set high expectations for the other party and make the other party think it is easy for you. If you don't do well enough in the end, the other person will also be dissatisfied. If you stop and think for a few seconds, you will let the other party understand that this is a bit difficult. If you can promise him, he will appreciate you more.