People in the unit, learn to be a 'ruthless man'

The workplace is like a battlefield, the winner is the king and the loser is the bandit.

In the face of ubiquitous bullying and fear of hardship, it is useless to pretend to be foolish, act like a spoiled child, and only make yourself a ruthless character, can you truly gain a foothold

01

Treat colleagues as strangers and don't make friends.

People often say: "accompanying the king is like accompanying a tiger, one emperor and one courtier". People are in the unit, everyone is polite and kind. If you are bewitched by smiling faces, give your heart and heart to your heart, and try your best to please one and the other, then you are making a big mistake.

One situation is that you are a light-hearted person, and the smiling faces others put on in front of everyone, as long as they face you alone, they may have a cold expression. You just don't know how to swallow the words that rushed to your mouth.

One situation is when someone else's position is higher than yours, so they wantonly "put on airs" in front of you, trying their best to act like a "leader". No matter how outstanding your performance is or how humble your attitude is, he will scoff at him, and even pick on his bones. , go around saying yours is not.

When you can't "go it alone", it's just whimsical to want to change this unwelcome situation through your own "show of kindness". Smart people know how to turn a blind eye to those who look down on themselves.

Ignoring is the best revenge. No matter what "sinky tricks" or "damaging tricks" the other party uses, it is like facing a strange passerby.

The more you ignore this intentional or unintentional "provocation", the more you can arouse your fighting spirit to be "professional and diligent". With diligent study and hard training, professional skills are increasing day by day, and work performance is rising. This is the most powerful counterattack.

02

Do not choose sides to stand in line, form your own faction.

People in the unit, on the surface, get along well with each other, and there will be no obvious "gang formation". But in fact, there have always been open and secret battles between different interest groups.

After a long time, you can see who is who and who is not. Especially when it comes to promotion and salary increase, usually the person who does nothing, usually gets the top spot, because many people are talking for him. And the person who does the most work and does the best job is often dismissed as "not good at communication".

At first, you may feel resentful, but you think, what do other people do when they go to work, but after get off work, they are busy treating guests to dinner, giving gifts, spending time and energy and a lot of money to maintain these relationships, you Can you bear it?

Taking a step back, even if someone pulls you into the group, it is only because you see that you are serious and hardworking, and when you need your efforts, you will naturally be boasting. If you live, other "don't know anything" will naturally "kick you out".

Therefore, the really smart and honest people know what they can and cannot do. Don't fool yourself into "choosing the side", not to mention unprofitable, even if it is profitable, you will stay far away.

Simple people, don't mix in complex crowds. You never know when you will be "sold" by them.

03

Be low-key, work low-key.

In the unit, there is a kind of person who is polite to everyone, always greets everyone with a smile, is humble and low-key, and even says a few words of justice for others. Most of the time, they behaved very "low-key", but once they became "high-profile", even the main leaders would accompany them with smiles and praise.

When the year-end evaluation is prioritized, it will give them the quota regardless of the three-seven-twenty-one.

The reason is very simple. These people who "advance and retreat freely" have backers behind them, and their background is often much larger than the leader of the unit.

If you want to learn from them, be low-key and do high-profile things, it's a big adventure.

Even if you have a good grasp of yourself, don't easily express the meaning of "can handle it". Those who claim that they have connections and connections from the beginning are often just "swelling up and making a fat man", and they don't know how to ask for help behind the scenes.

After finally accomplishing a major event, the favors I owe and the money I have advanced are both immeasurable losses.

For people with real connections and backgrounds, who rely on their power or money, they often just say a word, and a large number of people line up to help them do things.

Therefore, even if you have the ability, don't "show off your ability", you must learn to be a low-key person and do things in a low-key manner. Not to be noticed by others, but also not to be excluded.

04

Preconceived, self-proclaimed.

Some people are extroverted and carefree, and they also know that in the face of "unfathomable" units, if they want to gain a foothold, they have to think of some way. Put gold on it.

For example, it is clearly a task completed by a group, but when reporting the work, he will make a concluding speech on behalf of the entire group, and he is a "little leader" in his speech and behavior.

In this way, as long as he is not criticized by his boss for the first time, and other people "dare to be angry and dare not speak out", from then on, he will logically consider himself a "leader".

Even if there is still division of labor and cooperation, more, he began to "point fingers" and no longer do it himself.

People in the unit are like dancing on the tip of a knife, facing various games anytime, anywhere.

Once you desert, or take the attitude of "keeping the world apart", then, it is not you, but who else will be eliminated?

Therefore, if you want to stay well, you must learn to be a "ruthless person" and make others jealous, but helpless. That's the real sign of a foothold.