People who tell the truth in middle age, but do not tell the true meaning of lies, are too naive if they do not understand!
In the workplace, not only is it boring to lie, but even the truth can sometimes make people uncomfortable. How people should speak in middle age has become a topic that has to be discussed and verified in the workplace. Always telling lies without telling the truth is obviously unreliable behavior, but always telling the truth without a single lie is not a good idea, because always telling the truth risks offending people, and honest words are hard to listen to, so what should you say? Today, I would like to share with you the true meaning of middle-aged people who say that Allah knows and do not tell lies. The details are as follows:
1. It is up to you to speak or not to speak. Don’t keep your mouth shut: speaking in the workplace has always been free, which means you can tell the truth or lie, but what exactly do you want to say? How to say it is entirely up to you. If you say anything, whether true or false, with whomever you are, you risk getting into trouble. This is to tell everyone that we have the right to speak, but we cannot use this power indiscriminately. This is a basic requirement for people to speak in middle age. Otherwise, they will be passive in the workplace and be controlled by others everywhere.
2. Speaking is an expression but listening is an understanding, which requires a perfect match: whether it is true or false, it must be said skillfully, that is, not to give the other party the opportunity to misunderstand, and not to make the other party feel dissatisfied . Then, when speaking, we must pay attention to the coordination of speaking and listening. When to tell the truth, when to tell a white lie (a lie), and in what way to tell the truth, you have to know in your heart. Combine the feelings of the other party (listening), and always adjust the skills and content of what you say. When the perfect match between speaking and listening is achieved, the truth or falsehood of what you say is not so important. The important thing is that we have a pleasant conversation.
3. Personal and rigorous judgment is required between true and false words. No one will tell you: you can believe what others say, which can easily lead to emotional instability, because our attitude toward others is always at the most critical juncture. The collapse is not because what other people say is too fake, but because we don’t know how to distinguish between true and false, so we need a personal and rigorous judgment between true and false, and no one will take the initiative to tell us. When people are middle-aged, they should pay attention to the way and attitude of speech before speaking in the workplace, and reduce the misunderstanding of the other party. This is one of the most important principles for us to speak well. Where can I tell others clearly that this sentence is true and that sentence is false?
No matter what the words need to be heard by the other party, we need to do some design, from the way of speaking, skills and content. It’s not that difficult, it’s all an ability that we already have subconsciously. We just need to actively mobilize our ability in this area when speaking or listening. We have mastered the technical transformation of speech in the workplace. When a person reaches middle age, if he still understands the truth about truth and lies, it will be difficult to have smooth sailing in the workplace.