The child sits in a 'special seat', the parents get angry, the head teacher is wronged, and who does it hurt in the end?

A parent's father got angry in the class, pointed at the child's head teacher and scolded: Why let the child sit in the last row and still have a single table? No matter how bad his studies are, no matter how skinny he is, he can't be isolated like this, right? He's still a kid and you're going too far. Aren't teachers educating people? He can do whatever he wants, whatever he wants, why come to school? ...

In the end, he threatened to ask the principal to complain to the head teacher.

At that time, the head teacher was suddenly dumbfounded, standing there dumbfounded, unable to say anything...

In fact, there are many students like this in the school, and it is very common for the class teacher to deal with it like this. But there are not many parents like that.

I've encountered it in classes I've taught before. A student was late for almost every class, and Da was slouching, pulling his shoes. Talk before and after class, and go to bed without speaking when criticized. The parent is a government official, and the class teacher will give him the best seat, and his behavior makes the teacher unhappy in class.

Just think, if you talk vigorously, how can you continue to talk when a student falls asleep right under your nose. At first, the teachers woke him up, but he fell asleep after a while, or made small movements without falling asleep to affect the listening of the students around him.

Then the teachers simply didn't care. Some teachers directly told the head teacher to move him out of sight, so as not to disturb his eyes and affect his mood. As a result, he was sent to the special seat at the back to sleep.

Education is not a panacea, not all students are suitable to stay in school, parents can indulge their children, but if you influence the learning of other people's children, the parents of other children's children are not willing.

The class has a special seat, which is an integral part of class management. Its direct purpose is to tell the students who violate discipline, and they will pay the price if they are wrong, but the ultimate goal is to transform the problem students, hoping to make them wake up through punishment.

There was a primary school student who was naughty and affected the discipline of the class. The head teacher transferred him to the last row according to the class rules, and asked him to reflect on when he got better and when he changed back. As a result, the student cried and obediently carried his book to the back and took a seat. But from that day on, I listened carefully in class and rushed to do things in class. The teacher sees it in his eyes and is happy in his heart. Switched back after a week, and since then, the kid has been an excellent student.

Therefore, the parent at the beginning of the article got angry at the head teacher, which was actually interfering with the management of the head teacher.

In general, when this happens, parents should think like this:

The teacher and your child have no grudges and no grudges, so there is no need to get over it. The teacher's starting point is to help children correct their shortcomings.

Believe in the teacher, how to deal with flawed troublemakers, the teacher has his own way.

Face the child's shortcomings rationally, admit that the child has a problem and needs the help of the teacher.

On the contrary, parents interfering with the management of the head teacher and accusing the head teacher positively will not only affect their normal management work, but also be detrimental to children's correction.

The more parents intervene, the more strained the home-school relationship may be, which is not conducive to communication.

Interference will also cause harm to the head teacher and wrong others. And because of this, it is possible to have a personal grudge with the head teacher. If this is the case, how can the child continue to stay in this class. You are famous for being mischievous, and your parents are so powerful. How can other class teachers dare to accept your child?

People need to understand each other. If you think more from one's perspective, many problems will be solved easily. what do you say? Welcome to leave a message.