Why are young people reluctant to attend class reunions?

There may be many friends who feel that the workplace is full of interest disputes, intrigues, and no real friendship, and the best time to make friends is in college. There are not too many disputes over interests among the classmates, so everyone has a good relationship. This is also the main reason why many friends are reluctant to deal with colleagues after graduation, and only want to play with their former classmates.

In our father's generation, the relationship between classmates was very good, and I believe everyone has a deep understanding of it. Usually, it is normal for everyone to go out for a party and drink together, but this phenomenon is not as good as it used to be for today's young people. Nowadays, young people don't talk about going to class reunions. When the classmates were reunited, they were afraid to hide to the side. What was the reason for this result? Let's take a look at it together:

No. 1, the classmates' union has become a show of wealth

A few years after graduating, everyone has found a job, and some of them will definitely stand out. They will become more and more popular in the society. Of course, most of them are still normal people. Maybe a few years after graduation, their careers have improved slightly, but talk about it. Not much progress. When attending a class reunion at this time, it is easy to have a disparity in identity. Now young people have relatively strong self-esteem. Seeing that classmates who were similar to themselves in the past are now better than themselves, they will be more or less uncomfortable. No more reunions after two.

Second, the class reunion is a lot of money

Nowadays, most of the class reunions are based on the AA system, and the cost of a class reunion is not low. Everyone has to drink when they eat, and there must be other activities after the class reunion. These are all expensive. For the cost, it may cost hundreds of dollars to attend a class reunion. In addition to the round-trip fare, it is worth half a month's salary. Most of the young people these days are moonlight, and they usually have no savings and no extra spare money to attend class reunions.

3rd, time is not allowed

The most important point may be due to time constraints. After graduation, everyone is scattered all over the country, working in different cities, and the job attributes are different. Some need to work overtime on weekends, and some also need to work on holidays, so students It's hard to get these people together at a gathering. For example, a classmate works in the south and another classmate works in the north. At this time, if the location is set in the south, it is difficult for the students in the north to attend. Because of time constraints, many young people will not attend the class reunion.