Three tips to make yourself strong, use it well, and benefit for a lifetime

Many people are asking for help or fighting for their own career. In the whole process, there is a fatal weakness, that is, their heart is relatively fragile, and they cannot withstand a little setback. Very simple things become in his hands. If it is complicated, it becomes difficult to handle. If you want to quickly strengthen your heart, you can also try the following three ways of thinking, so as to quickly change and break the bad situation of the current vicious circle.

[1] Dare to force yourself - without the courage to break the jar, you will become more and more vulnerable. Sometimes, you really give up, and things really happen.

Everyone's perception of themselves is often not seen clearly by others. This is called a fan of the authorities, so don't always feel that you have no potential to tap, and don't feel that you have no advantages compared with others. In fact, there is a real relationship between people. The difference is not big. It doesn’t mean that other people’s IQ is really much higher than yours, and other people’s EQ is much better than yours. It’s just that you didn’t push yourself. When you really pushed yourself into a situation of relative pressure, you would Find that your ability is not worse than others, and your level is not lower than others.

[2] Don't give yourself a way out - if you are poor, there must be a way out to cause such a tragic situation. When a person has no way out, it is when you achieve a breakthrough in your career.

In most cases, our indulgence to ourselves is one of the causes of failure in our careers. The reason why your current situation is unbearable and you are very dissatisfied with yourself is because there are too many retreats for yourself. , always want to be in absolute security, in fact, for those who are working hard, this unbalanced mentality will make you lose the motivation to move forward, especially when you encounter obstacles. I just want to see if I can think of some skills and methods, if I can take some shortcuts, if someone can help me, and remember that only by completely cutting off your own retreat and not having fantasies, can you let yourself go. The potential is fully tapped.

[3] Don't save face for others - if you don't know how to refuse properly, you will always be the target of others' bullying.

Many people's time management is very wrong. For the sake of face, they spend most of their time on getting along with others, which makes their time allocation extremely unreasonable. Remember, make your own affairs come true. , to take care of your time in an orderly manner, you must learn to refuse decisively, not to offend someone, but to make him give up a free use of you.

For the above three methods and techniques, if you can use them properly, your heart will gradually become stronger, and you can at least build up the basic psychological quality of self-confidence.