No matter how good the relationship is, you can't lend money to these three types of people, otherwise it will definitely be a waste.
When conducting economic transactions with friends, everyone still has to keep their eyes open. No matter how good the relationship is, the following three people cannot lend money to them, otherwise, the money must be borrowed and never returned. To judge the relationship between you and your friends, you cannot use your own emotional judgment. You must learn to judge more rationally and objectively. The nature of the relationship between you has not yet reached the premise that economic exchanges are required. Do not try to take this risk. After all, it is not easy for everyone to make money. Once the money borrowed is not returned, it will still have a relatively large impact on oneself, so it must be highly valued by everyone.
【1】People you just met——If you don't know the details, you lend money to people you just met. Nine times out of ten, people only know you because they want to borrow money from you.
For such a person to borrow money from you, his motives and purposes are questionable. If you lend money to him based on your basic impression of him, when you regret it after a while, he will It may disappear soon, so for someone we just met, we need to spend a longer time to seriously judge whether this person is worthy of your association.
Especially if you hit it off right away, you should prevent this kind of thing from happening. Remember that sometimes people are separated from each other. Sometimes, it is not enough to know a person with just a few words. It must be precipitated and accumulated.
[2] A person with a criminal record - you clearly know that he has borrowed a lot of money from others and has not paid it back, but if you lend to such a person, you have money to do it.
Many people have a fluke mentality or are persuaded by others to make such decisions. Remember, a person's past is likely to have a long inertia, that is, from his past collection and From the traces, you can know his current state and future development trend. You know that this person has borrowed money from others and never repays it. With his three-inch tongue, you still dare to lend money to He, in fact, this shows a problem, you don't have a brain.
On the issue of money and interests, don't hold the illusion that this person will become a very good person. Since a lot of dishonest things happened in the past, he will still operate in this way. So when we borrow money, we must think carefully to see what happened to this person in the past. If you see it thoroughly, let yourself stop quickly.
[3] Peacemaker-like person - this kind of person has great uncertainty, uncertain attitude, and is most likely to change his mind. No matter how good this person is, you have to think twice.
This kind of person is relatively common around us. The purpose of their borrowing may not be to borrow money, but to please certain people or improve certain relationships. One of the biggest characteristics of such people is that they do not have a clear attitude. , you can't see that he is a good person, and you can't see that he is a bad person. They change back and forth between a good person and a bad person. Maybe the words are very beautiful in front of you, and you are very moved after listening to them. , but after turning around, you may not know what he said, and you can't have economic dealings with these people.
Regarding the above three types of people, when you have economic dealings with them, you still have to pay attention to your sense of proportion, and don't be fooled by superficial phenomena. Don't be moved by all kinds of rhetoric. If you don't borrow money, you don't borrow it. This is your bottom line and principle. If you violate these bottom lines and principles, not only is it good if you don't fall behind, but it may also be because you lend him money. If you offend him when you ask for it, by that time you won't even have basic love.