What if the woman in the family earns more than the man? Do you like business or family?

Netizen one:

There is always one side in a family who is on the stronger side. Whether it is internal or external, it needs a person to support the family.

Externally, if the man in the family is too cowardly, then the woman has to be the top, otherwise he will be bullied to death by others. I admire this woman so much.

Internally, how strong women will be in the family depends on the situation. If both women and men are strong, then the whole family will live in a row; if the man is tolerant and strong, it is okay for women to be strong, and the complementarity of personalities will make life very happy.

I think it's no big deal for a woman to be strong, but if you can communicate, it will be miserable if you can't communicate. It will make people feel that this person is unreasonable and unreasonable. I don't think anyone wants to be seen as this image by others.

Strong and communicative, people think you are a capable person, but it is a pity that you have a daughter. Most women in modern society are very strong, so they all want to compete with their male counterparts in some aspects. Female men are frequent, and men are under a lot of pressure.

My mother is stronger than my father. Fortunately, my father is not bad, but I let my mother go everywhere, and my mother will give my father enough face outside, so that they can live in harmony for a lifetime.

Netizen two:

There is a saying that if you get cheap, you will sell well. "What happens in a family where women are strong and men are weak?" It depends on why women want and why men want to be [weak] again. Women are strong, where is the strength? Where is that man weak and weak?

Some people say that because men have strong self-esteem, if women take care of everything at home, men can't help at all, and they will break up sooner or later. This seems to make sense, but I have different opinions and views on this.

What does it mean for a man to have stronger self-esteem? Do women have no self-esteem? Can self-esteem be eaten? Self-esteem Can you feed a family? It is clear that [machismo] is at fault, and [self-esteem] is used as an excuse. Without a woman-run family, can a man handle everything properly and just right?

Clearly everything needs the care of women. But you don't need women's discipline, you don't want to let go of power even if you don't have money? Haha, just kidding. But to be honest, I don't see any woman who is so stupid as to be a rich wife who has nothing to worry about at home, but goes out to earn money to support her family.

Therefore, most women have a reason, they are also forced by life, and they are also forced out by [helplessness]. If women have a strong arm to rely on, there is a happy harbor to dock. I think women's so-called "strong" will all be thrown into the sea.

Netizen three:

Throughout history, where yin flourished and yang declined, the most typical one was Wu Dalang's family, which ended in failure.

The real scary person is Pan Jinlian, the wife of Wu Dalang. Without the power to tie the chicken, the ambition can kill. She is only looking for Ximen Qing, but she doesn't do housework at home, she doesn't do farm work outside, and she can't work for a month. This kind of woman is scary.

This kind of woman is looking for green hats for men all day, and she doesn't dare to be mad at her. A strong woman like this: 1. Her family is powerful; 2. Her husband's inability to blindly tolerate the result.

This kind of family quarrels for three days, curses for five days, and the man swallows his anger and spoils the woman.

In another situation, after women gain power, they treat men as slaves, use them at will, and do not respect their personality. Over time, the man had to take a back seat and watch from the sidelines wearing a green hat.

At present, there are many strong women in China who are living this kind of life. Having been in the company of a lover for a long time, and taking care of children and "face", home is no longer home.

But this kind of strong woman actually has her endless tears. She is strong at home, but she is pitifully weak in the face of society. Do one thing, and still bow down.

A woman is not afraid of being strong, but she is afraid of being reasonable and not letting others, acting indiscriminately, and treating her husband's forbearance as bullying. Such a family will definitely not end well in the end.

But there are indeed some very harmonious families where women are strong and men are weak, but the premise is that the two people have negotiated in advance.

Once the man is in control, his career will inevitably be affected. This is a sacrifice made by a man for a woman's career, not an excuse used by women to insult men and destroy their own families.

Netizen Four:

A strong woman is a disaster for the family! I'm not saying that women's intelligence quotient is high or low, farsightedness, and mind is not as good as men's, but that it is a disaster for their children and themselves.

I met a boy next to me to talk to, and every time it was the mother who was in charge of the house, but the child got married, then divorced, and the person we talked to again failed again and again. Every time the woman saw the handsome boy on the date, Ben There is no opinion, the boy has to ask his mother's opinion, giving the woman no sense of security at all, and there will be conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and he will stand on his mother's side.

Girls aren't stupid either, Mabao's children will never grow up.

In another family, the daughter-in-law gave birth, and the doctor said it was going to be a caesarean section. The mother-in-law disagreed because of the extra cost of 5,000 yuan, and even scolded the son, saying that there was no hen who could not lay eggs, so the son did not dare to sign the operation book.

The doctor cried anxiously, saying that the woman was running out of strength to use anesthesia for the operation. When she saw the nurse who was taking the plasma, she grabbed it and said that the woman’s blood was normal. When the pregnant woman died, she also told me to take a look.

If you think about 5,000 yuan and other people's delay, the girl must be cautious when looking for a partner. It's no wonder that the child is divorced, and he can't always find it. Is it something to do with this strong woman?

Therefore, some women's strength is based on strong character, not ability. They feel that their unreasonableness is an excuse for their strength. Men in such families have either given up their marriages or have found other women outside.

Netizen five:

This is a very heavy topic and a very red flag. I tell you a true story.

A widow whose husband died early, brought up her son through hardships, and married her son to a daughter-in-law.

The son and daughter-in-law obeyed the old man, they just did their work, and there was no communication or contact with the outside world. As a result, I had a grandson, and when the grandson grew up, he still obeyed the old man. There is no woman in such a family who is willing to marry a grandson.

The old man finally died one day, and his funeral could only be handled with the help of the neighbors. Soon his son and daughter-in-law died, leaving a lonely grandson who could only do simple labor, and whoever worked for him would eat some food at his house. A good family has just died.

In fact, there is no problem in essence. It's just that everyone has something that everyone has to do, and if it's not handled properly, the consequences will be unimaginable.

In fact, most wives look down on their husbands, but the smart way is to push the man in front of the stage, and don't rush forward unless it is absolutely necessary. A brave woman is not good for both people and the family.

If women have a special position in the family, human beings have this instinct in a matriarchal society for a long time, and the kinship of women in the family is the most important. Women are more important to the family than men. So it makes sense to say that women are hard to be.

Netizen Six:

In a family, there will inevitably be people with two personalities. Both men and women are strong, and they have to fight every day. Men are strong and women are weak, so they can get along with each other in peace.

If you have a strong personality and your son is also strong, and you fight with your son, why don't you say that your family is not happy, then fight with your wife and you will be unhappy?

To put it bluntly, it depends on the individual.

If you get rid of the big shopkeeper, you should be open to everything. If a woman is strong, you can still be happy and carefree, provided that you have to take care of your family.

In fact, what I am most afraid of is that men are incompetent and need face. Women think that men are incompetent, so they must be the pillars of the family. Men usually do not reflect on their incompetence at this time. Men will instinctively feel that women are strong. What is this? This is shirk responsibility!

You can't do it, others go, you still say others, you are still wronged, how glassy you are!

It is often said that women are strong and their families are unhappy. Usually, they are the kind of people who have no ability and want to save face.

If you want to be the emperor at home, then your son will be the emperor and your daughter-in-law will be the queen mother!

So the solution to the problem is very simple. If you want to feel that women are strong, then you should do your best and contribute more to the family. If you are not skilled, you should work hard in a down-to-earth and quiet way. The effort you make, you are not only jealous, but you have to step on both feet, how disgusting!