Should a high-value girl fight for a career or a man? Netizen: You can eat with your face, who is still fighting for his career
Netizen one:
The end of a woman is the family, and the end of a man is the society. This is a social dividend work, and every girl still pursues a warm and happy home as her life goal...
What does a pretty girl spell? Beauty is a resource of social and personal quality that should be used well.
Those who have the conditions to fight for men first fight for men, and then continue to improve themselves in terms of temperament and image, and maintain and increase their personal charm. When conditions permit, develop yourself appropriately.
Because the world is still dominated by men, and women dominate the world through men.
If you have the conditions to develop yourself, you must first fight for your career. Good family background, no worries about life. If you don't have a suitable man, you should develop yourself first, and you won't have to worry about getting married anyway. Such as Yang Lan, Song Hye Kyo, Zeng Zimo... With a high social status, there will naturally be men of high rank who will pursue you.
Beautiful girl, don't marry yourself casually... When one day, you not only have good looks, but also have talent, you will find out who loves your appearance and who admires your talent.
Just like my sister, she is very beautiful, but she will never agree to the pursuit of those playboys. Because my sister knows that what those people like is only her appearance.
Therefore, after graduating from undergraduate, she went to graduate school, read various books, and traveled everywhere. Now she gives us the feeling that she is no longer just good-looking, but also has an independent temperament and personality charm.
Now my sister is married to my very talented brother-in-law, a 30-year-old university teacher, who is handsome and talented. I envy them.
Netizen two:
I think a beautiful girl has no conflict between fighting for a career and fighting for a man. The most essential thing is to fight for herself, invest in herself, and make herself better.
First, what is pretty? The most beautiful part of a girl is never just her face and body. A lifetime is so long, and it is the most beautiful that has been precipitated over time.
As Liu Qiangdong, who married Sister Milk Tea, said: I am blind, and I am not with Sister Milk Tea because she is beautiful. A truly beautiful girl should have confidence on her face, kindness in her heart, backbone in her blood, and strength in her life.
A beautiful girl should be diligent, love to learn, and dress up in time. She doesn't expect others and life to be gentle to herself, but she is gentle to others and life, and gentle to the whole world. Who wouldn't like such a girl? What about the child?
Second, fight for career or fight for men? Many people say that girls only need to marry the right person and marry a good man, and they don't have to work so hard, because the person you want will be given to you, and that person will take care of you very much, care about you, and take care of you for the rest of your life. .
Therefore, many girls are looking for such a good man to entrust their whole life. Most girls are really naive and like fantasy.
We've all seen too many couples who got together because of money and ended up going their separate ways. There's nothing wrong with looking for a good man, but if you're just looking for a good man without making yourself great, you're making a big mistake.
Netizen three:
A woman with a career and financial independence can have a good man.
Nowadays, society is increasingly demanding women's independence. After all, the second generation of rich people is still a minority, and there are not so many grandmothers.
Only when you are financially independent, you don't have to ask men for money. You won't be looked down upon by others, and you won't get that sentence. You spend all my money, so you won't be inferior, and you won't appear inferior in front of a man's parents.
Like my husband, the family is still wealthy, but my in-laws don't dare to do anything to me. Won't treat me with a bad tone.
Some of my classmates are housewives at home. They don't make money, and they ask their husbands for money. This kind of thing is right in front of my in-laws and seems to have no status. They think you are spending all his son's money, you are not making money, you are not paying for the family.
You feel that you are aggrieved, you take care of the children at home and do housework, and you are also paying, but they don't think so.
There are many men. After a woman gets divorced, the woman is very passive when she has no career. After the divorce, the judge will decide that the child belongs to the more financially able party. If you don't have a career, why do you have children?
If you get child custody and your career is not good, why do you have children?
I really dislike those women who don't work. I feel that it is difficult to find a man, as if they have found a backer, but one day a man cheats, divorces him or leaves him, and complains about how the man is.
I think it's all women's fault, why should they be so dependent on men? Can't work independently? Can't have independent economic income? Not financially independent?
Only when a woman has a career can she be financially independent, and when she is financially independent, can she be respected by others.
So you must have a career, not necessarily career-based, but you must be financially independent.
Netizen four:
I want to ask a question, do you think that beautiful girls rely on their own strength and talent to eat at ease? Or do you rely on your own face to rely on others to eat?
Needless to say the answer? I think everyone speaks out what the crowd thinks in their hearts. The reason why people ask this kind of mindless question is because in real life there are beautiful girls who rely on their looks to eat, and they are getting worse.
This is a social problem, and deformed mentality comes from deformed needs. There is a market only because there is demand.
But everyone only sees wolves eating meat but not starving wolves. Beautiful girls can't be beautiful forever, right? There are also times when they are old and fading, and when they are tired of playing. They are like women in the palace. They can be queens. How many people are there? But it was the majority who were thrown into the cold palace. At that time, no one even remembers you.
Don't be greedy for temporary pleasures, keep "gaining weight" for yourself, isn't it better to let people appreciate you not only for your appearance? Don't let people say behind your back that you are a vase for soft rice and fragile.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, first of all, it is necessary to be independent, especially financial independence. Now this society is fair, and it is not ruled out that many girls who are good enough always feel that they can stand in this society by relying on their own face, so they will be the juniors of others.
And these people, in the end, often do not have a good ending.
Netizen five:
Whether it is a career or a man, each has its own advantages and disadvantages. It is not the same level and cannot be compared.
Another reminder, unless you are in a special industry, there is no direct causal relationship between your career and your beauty.
Whether choosing a career or choosing a man, there is no such thing as success or failure, it's just that everyone chooses differently.
In the past, there was a female colleague in the company. She was pretty and beautiful. Although she was not the kind of beauty that could make people shine, she was also a girl from Xiaojiabiyu. This girl's ideal is to find a rich man to marry and live as a young grandmother.
Because of the company's attributes, I often come into contact with the top executives of major companies. The girl has good working ability and is super desperate for outreach.
Although we don't agree with the girl's idea, and we will discuss it in private, but the girl's working method and attitude can indeed handle a lot of difficult business.
With the attitude of fighting for her career, she carefully screened the rich people she knew, and quickly realized her dream and married a rich second-generation.
Since then, she has left the workplace and has lived the life of a rich wife.
Because her advice on family business management was very effective, her in-laws thought she had the talent for business management, so she assigned a company to let her practice. Last year, I heard that she gave birth to a son, and her in-laws directly rewarded a villa.
Does this story sound like tidbits in an entertainment newspaper?
The girl has made her own choice. As for whether life is really happy, let's not talk about it. Seeking benevolence and achieving her goals are worthy of admiration.
Netizen Six:
Bright girls, please remember: no matter what you fight, you fight for yourself! Whether it is a career or a man, it is obtained by fighting for yourself.
Being beautiful is a great advantage of a girl, all you have to do is how to use this advantage to get what you want. And I never think that there is any conflict between family, love, and career. As long as you arrange your time and plan reasonably, everything will come naturally.
Look at Trump's daughter, Ivanka, who is fighting for her father, a man, and her career. Isn't she able to do it with ease? There are also many female executives in our companies, most of whom are very successful in their careers and families. Fighting for a career and fighting for a man may have some emphasis and sacrifice for a period of time, but it is all obtainable.
The question is how to spell? Everyone's method is different, let me say a few words to beautiful girls:
Never forget to add to your temperament (beauty, dignity and elegance).
Maintain an independent attitude towards life and the ability to live independently.
Continuously charge to improve your working ability.
Pay attention to the friendly exchanges with people, and use your appearance and temperament to attract a lot of "fans".
Know self-discipline and manage life to make yourself more "intellectual".
I hope every girl can have a career and a man.