At the wine table, if the leader doesn't give you a seat, how do you get off the stage? 3 points of advice for you
In today's society, wine occupies an increasingly important proportion in our lives. As a drink, wine has become an indispensable part of people's lives. It is reflected in all aspects of people's lives, both spiritually and materially. its figure. Wine has its importance in human relations, especially on the wine table. For today's people, it is impossible to have no wine.
There is such a saying, if you have wine, meat and friends, you have to drink at the wine table, otherwise you will not make friends with you. When it comes to drinking, everyone must think about how to toast, but they don't realize that the rules of placement on the wine table are just as important as toasting. If a wine party is successful, it is inseparable from the arrangement of the wine table behind, so let's see how it is arranged so that everyone can be taken care of.
- High status, territorial priority
Seating arrangement is the most important first step at the beginning of a banquet, and it is also the most sensitive and important link in Chinese wine table culture.
Usually, in the eyes of the Chinese, the host and the guests should be facing the gate because of the panoramic view of the whole banquet hall. We must strictly follow the ranking rule of "right first, right second", that is, the more important the guest, the closer to the guest of honor, the closer the guest is to the guest of honor, the more important the guest, the more noble the guest.
If the object of your banquet is party and government leaders, please follow the principle of "high status and territorial priority" for the invited leaders
Arrange seats in sequence. The largest leader should be placed above the main seat, while the largest foreign leader is usually placed to the right of the local leader, and then arranged on a "left-to-right first" principle.
Second, right first, right second
You are entertaining a work partner or client. If your boss is also present, you'd better take the boss to the main seat and arrange it on the left and right sides of the big boss according to the importance of the guests and customers. Of course, if there are many high-level and important party and government leaders above the banquet, you should put the party and government leaders on the main seat, and let your boss sit to the right of the big leader. The rest of the staff can be arranged according to the principle of "right first, right second".
- Arrangement by status
You're planning a family dinner, and you should invite the highest-ranking person in your family as the guest of honor. The rest can be arranged according to the owner's identity, status and intimacy with the owner. Of course, if there are great people or celebrities in the family, they can also be arranged to sit in the first seat to the right of the host and guests. Usually, the object of the main banquet should be seated above the guest of honor.
If you want to arrange dinner for the student union or comrades in arms, then ask the squad leader or the direct leader of the army to take a seat. Other students or comrades can sit freely. Of course, if ordinary students or ordinary soldiers of the day became leaders today, they should be respected as subjects and objects. You're just an invitee to the dinner party, and you should follow the host's orders or read the seating chart carefully to avoid embarrassment.
It is generally not allowed to sit on the main table facing the front door. In Chinese wine table culture, this seat is usually the payer's seat. Unnecessary misunderstandings may arise if guests are allowed to be seated.