Being poor is not scary, what is scary is that if you don't know these 4 sentences, you will never be able to turn around

Not everyone's life is smooth sailing. Most people have realized the difficulties and obstacles that poverty brings to them when they step into society. Today I saw a post by a female netizen complaining about her mother.

She said that she was tired of working outside and didn't want to work for others anymore, so she decided to open a small restaurant and start her own business. But even a small restaurant needs start-up capital. This female netizen has borrowed from friends around her, but she has no choice but to borrow 50,000 yuan from her parents. Unexpectedly, the mother of the female netizen was always reluctant to let go. She felt that 50,000 yuan was a large amount, and even her own daughter could not borrow it casually.

But the daughter was very persevering, and finally, after her daughter had been grinding for two full months, her mother gave her the money. But what the daughter didn't expect was that not long after she borrowed money, her mother spread the word everywhere, told all her relatives and friends about it, and said that her daughter asked him to borrow money every day. The daughter feels very embarrassed, and now she wants to make money quickly, and immediately return the money to her mother. But she also felt very uncomfortable. She even laughed at herself and said that looking at her mother's attitude towards money and her daughter, no one would have imagined that she was actually the only child in the family.

Below this post, netizens expressed their opinions. There are some people who support their daughters, but most feel that the mother did nothing wrong. After all, the daughter is an adult, and the parents no longer bear the responsibility of raising him, nor are they obliged to provide him with such a large amount of money.

In fact, many people will face such a situation. As long as a person starts to wander outside, poverty will always be like a maggot attached to the bones, and they will be tortured. Whenever this time, everyone's first thought is always their parents. Some people even thought that it would be better to stay at home like this and never go out for the rest of their lives.

At this time, the following words may allow us to overcome poverty and find the strength to persevere.

1. You can run into a wall outside, but never at home

The outside world is too hard, and I really can't hold on. That's what everyone thinks of when they're at their worst. At this time, we will long to go home, to go back to when we were children, when our parents shielded us from the wind and rain. It seems that as long as I go home, I can always hide behind my parents, and I can't see the hardships and hardships outside, and I can't see the fatigue of life outside. But we have grown up, and today we are more powerful than our parents and can do many things that even they can't. At this time, we should protect them, not hide behind them and let them build a wall for us with their own flesh and blood. Therefore, at the age when it is time to go out, I would rather run into a wall outside, suffer all the indifference, and endure hardships, and never say that I am behind my parents and walled in at home.

To know that the outside world is difficult, but this kind of difficulty will hone our minds, let us accumulate the experience of fighting against the world and these difficulties, and let us know which way we should go. More likely, this kind of life can also give us a chance at some point. As long as we seize this opportunity, we can also turn around.

2. The poorer you are, the more you have to sacrifice everything to fight against the sky

What is the fear of being poor, everyone will be poor. Even Mr. Cao Xueqin, who wrote "A Dream of Red Mansions", has not experienced poverty and poverty? Even he was originally the young master of a big family, and it was only when the family was destroyed that he came to that point. Today we are much more fortunate than he was back then. Therefore, what is poverty, the poorer we are, the more we know what we want and what we should pay. The more money we have, the more we have to work hard and use all means to improve our strength. If your background is not as good as others, then you will work harder than others and pay more than others. 99 drops of sweat can always catch up with that trace of talent. As long as you double your efforts, you won't have to worry about not being able to catch up with others. As long as you keep fighting, you won't have to worry about your own growth.

3. No matter how difficult it is, you must learn to be grateful

When we are in a difficult time, we will inevitably magnify the negative emotions in our hearts infinitely. We only remember our suffering and tears at that time, but suddenly

At that time, there were actually people who were always by our side, encouraging us and supporting us. Therefore, when we are poor, when we are sad, we should look at those around us who have given us kindness and help, and remember them firmly and remember this warmth.

We need to know that when we are in difficulties, no one should help us, they help us because of affection and care. When one day we have achieved something, we must repay them with the greatest gratitude. Even if we work hard for a long time, we still do not reach that point, we must keep in mind their goodness to us. In the days ahead, do whatever you can to repay those kindnesses.

4. The poorer you are, the more precious time you have to cherish

When the background is not as good as others and the resources are not as good as others, the only thing we have in common with them is time. So we have to learn to catch up with them in time. The poorer and the more difficult it is, the more you must know the value of time. In the days of poverty, we must not blindly mess around and live a life that can be lived.

At this time, what we should do most is to make use of these time, set a goal, and then work hard to make a plan, work hard towards this goal, and continue to implement it according to our own plan. Through this program, learn what you need to learn and gain the skills you deserve.

You must know that for us today, every minute and second is extremely precious. As long as we can make good use of these time and lay a solid foundation, we will not necessarily be worse than others in the future.

Poverty is not terrible. What is terrible is that poverty will always knock us down in a way that tears our self-esteem, so that we will no longer have the courage to move forward.

At this time, we must remember that instead of wasting time at home, it is better to go outside to face poverty, bump into more walls, and improve our ability to withstand blows. Also, the poorer you are, the harder you have to work. Only by putting in more sweat than others can you get everything you want.

The most important thing is that you must learn to cherish time, use limited time to learn unlimited knowledge, and remember those who helped you during your troubles, and always be grateful to them.