College girl and her boyfriend lived in the dormitory for half a month. They were reported by their roommates without apologizing, and they even called them hypocritical.
Many college students do not go to school locally, and most of them come from other provinces. During the four years of study at the school, several people lived in the same dormitory. Before the classmates did not know each other, the group life was prone to conflicts.
There are not many courses for college students, so students can do whatever they want after class, such as hanging out with friends. Due to living in the dormitory, some dormitories will check the bed every night to ensure that the students are all at the school, so as to ensure safety.
Even if the classmates go out to play, they will definitely remember to check the bedtime and come back before the dormitory is closed. Otherwise, the missed bedtime will be reported to the counselor, which will have a certain impact on their studies, and they will not be absent at night. place to live.
Because it is a collective life, everyone will try their best to look after each other and tolerate each other. However, some people violated the rules that collective life should actively abide by, which affected the lives of roommates who lived in the same dormitory.
An unbelievable thing happened in a college in Hunan. A girl brought her boyfriend into the girls' dormitory and lived with her for half a month. According to the girl's roommate, there were other girls living in the dormitory during this time.
The young couple was not at all embarrassed. It is inherently inconvenient for boys to enter the girls' dormitory, but the roommate, who was a classmate for several years in college, didn't say anything at first. He just hoped that the couple could consciously stay for one night and leave.
But the couple had no self-consciousness about borrowing, and even regarded the shared dormitory as their own home, getting up at one or two in the morning and ordering takeaways. At that time, the roommates had already slept and disturbed others, and they did not apologize at all.
The girl even said that not everyone is asleep, which is really hypocritical. Due to the arrival of the boys, there were not enough beds in the dormitory. In order to make room for the boys, the girls and their roommates slept on the same bed. As a result, the roommates got up the next day and found that there were actually three people in their bed.
This made her very unacceptable, and many of the boys' habits made her unacceptable, such as sleeping naked in the girls' dormitory, ignoring other people's feelings at all, and completely unaware that her behavior had caused trouble to others.
In the blink of an eye, half a month has passed. The girl's roommates found that the boy still had no intention of moving out, so they had to find the girl and ask them when they would move out.
The girl's reply was that she didn't have the money to stay in a hotel outside, so she came to the dormitory to make do with it. Thinking of how long this situation will last, the roommates couldn't bear it anymore, and told the dormitory aunt the cause and effect of the incident, hoping that she could come forward to help solve the problem, let the couple, or at least the boy, move out of the girls' dormitory.
When the girl faced the inquiries of the dormitory aunt, not only did she not apologize, but instead accused her roommate of being careful and hypocritical, saying that her roommate stabbed her with a knife in front of her face and behind her back. This makes roommates feel bad.
However, he completely ignores the influence and troubles he brings to the collective life of his roommates, and instead scolds his roommates for being hypocritical and unscrupulous. What kind of psychology is this?
Hearing such news, I believe many students feel incredible. How can such qualities and ideas be worthy of being a college student? The couple did not reflect on what they had done, and just asked others to pay.
However, he completely ignores the influence and troubles he brings to the collective life of his roommates, and instead scolds his roommates for being hypocritical and unscrupulous. What kind of psychology is this?
College students should abide by the rules and regulations of dormitory management and try not to cause trouble to roommates
Before the students went to college, they were the treasures of their parents at home, and they were reluctant to let the students suffer a little grievance. But after entering the campus, the students can't be as willful as they are at home, and everything must be considered in many aspects.
Every university dormitory has relevant management systems. These systems are not to restrict the behavior of students, but to ensure the safety of students living in the dormitory. Violating the rules or breaking the rules is a responsibility to yourself and others. responsibility.
The collective life of the university has exercised the students' tolerance and communication skills after entering the society. Living in the same dormitory, students can't do whatever they want. Instead, they have to consider the feelings of others, so as to reduce the conflicts between classmates.
May the students respect others, be tolerant of others, and gain understanding and respect from others in their dormitory life. This is the quality that a college student should have.
In school, students may indeed meet some strange roommates. Students should be more tolerant and try their best to solve problems through communication. However, if his behavior seriously affects the normal life of the classmates, he must report it to the counselor and the dormitory aunt in time, and cannot affect his university life because of others.
During your school days, did you meet any weird roommates?