Learn these 5 points in the workplace, and you will also have the ability to find words

Because many workplace friends are introverted, they will not find topics when they meet others, and often appear passive in social situations. Whether in the workplace or in life, you encounter problems and want to ask someone for help, but you don't know how to speak, which often affects your efficiency. So how can you change yourself for the better. Here are five tips for working friends

1. Talk about topics that the public likes to pay attention to.

Sometimes in the face of many unfamiliar people in the workplace, I look for things that the public cares about, as the subject of chat, so that many people will be more interested. And everyone likes it, and can talk non-stop. Don't worry about the cold.

2. With the help of the information around you or the latest information.

If there is really no topic to talk about, workplace friends can use the latest news to chat. Now is the era of information explosion, there is new information every day, as long as you pay more attention to the information, you don't have to be afraid that you will have nothing to say. Don't be too rigid in your own way of speaking. When you think of one thing, you should be able to associate it with other things smoothly. Many workplace friends will use each other's name, hometown, zodiac, clothing, housing, etc. to find out many topics of interest, and often get good results.

3. Ask questions to chat.

Many workplace friends have heard the idiom "throwing stones to ask for directions". Communicate with the other person, if there is no topic to start. We can use the questioning method of communication. We will be able to happily communicate with others as you explore topics of interest.

4. Talk about topics of common interest.

Get to know the other person's interests first, if you don't know, you can keep asking questions. When you find out that the other person's preferences are the same as yours, you can communicate in depth. If you both like to read books, you can talk about the books each other likes to read and how to read them. As well as the most recent best-selling book, how you feel after reading it, etc., can be used as discussion materials.

5. Introduce yourself and let others know about you.

In most cases, it is impossible to insert the other party's topic because there is no point of interest for the other party. It is said that with the same ambition, we can talk for a longer time and increase the awareness of both parties. But the premise is to introduce yourself first, is the correct way to chat. Some people in the workplace will ignore the taboos of chatting. Always ask people questions blindly, always know each other. In fact, it is necessary to talk about yourself properly. This will allow them to get to know you better. Learn these five ways to chat with others, and you in the workplace will definitely improve your ability to find words when you have nothing to say.