In the workplace, please give up the idea of being a 'good person' immediately

In life, we always hope that we can cover everything, be a good person that everyone praises, and make everyone satisfied. Often we lose a lot of things in order to be a perfect good person. Sometimes in order to achieve our goals, we have to give up the idea of ​​being a good person, and we only gain by losing.

What is good and what is bad? There is no standard for good or bad, it only exists in interests. If you offend the interests of others, then no matter how good you are, you are still a bad person in the eyes of others. Because the other party is in his position, and you are in your own position. Therefore, whether we are good people or bad people in the eyes of others, we have to pay the price for our choices.

Whether in the workplace or in the market, losers are always looked down upon. The reason why losers are failures is often profound

The reason for the level is either that his skills are inferior to others, or he is willing to degenerate. If so, why bother? After all, social resources are limited. If you want to become an outstanding person, you must have more social resources. And if you care too much about others in the competition, take your own face too much, and don't want to compete with others, you are bound to lose a great opportunity.

In fact, many times we are hindered by our own good temper. Because we are worried about failure, we endure everything when we do things, want to make the other party satisfied, and finally make ourselves shrink. When we reflect carefully, we will find that fear of failure cannot avoid failure. Only by facing it bravely and showing the true self can we succeed.

It is undeniable that everyone wants to be a good person with face and face, but nothing is perfect in the world. If you fulfill this person, you will surely offend another person. Therefore, don't endure and endure again and again for the sake of good people's face, and only by putting aside these can you fight bravely without any burden in the competition, and thus win a place for yourself to survive.