After students go to college, they need to leave their parents to enter the university campus and start a new chapter in their life, which is a big challenge for most students. The first challenge they face is how to ask their parents for living expenses.

Although students have to live independently after going to college, they still have to rely on their parents financially, and get a certain amount of living expenses from their parents to pay for their daily expenses in college.

However, no matter how much money is spent, the students have a deep understanding of this. They often push and pull because of the problem of living expenses and the limit of their parents. The intensity is comparable to a palace fight drama.

Living expenses "push and pull" the ceiling, college students post chat records with their parents

If you are not home, you don’t know Chai Migui. Many students only understand the true meaning of this sentence after they enter the university . Originally, many students thought that the living expenses were enough to meet their own needs. When they were truly "in charge", they realized that they need to spend money everywhere in life.

The cost of eating may be a lot, but there are actually a lot of other expenses , such as daily necessities, skin care products, clothes, parties, learning materials, and there are places where money is spent in life.

The living expenses given to them by their parents seem to be stretched thin in comparison. Many students have no choice but to issue "living allowance applications" to their parents, but parents are not fuel-efficient lamps.

A girl posted a screenshot of her parents chatting. The girl said that she had applied to her father for additional living expenses, but her father only gave him 300 yuan.

The girl coquettishly asked her father, "Why is there only 300? It won't last long!"

Dad replied calmly: Dad gave money, but never said how many days it would take you. Dad loves you, and mother loves you more.

After reading the father's reply, the student understood in seconds that this was her father's hint : father loves you (300) and mother loves you more (≥300).

This kind of extreme push and pull is performed every day, especially at the end of each month, there is a "push and pull" drama . The chat content between college students and their parents is very exciting, comparable to palace fighting dramas.

There are also some students and their parents who have started "classical Chinese" : the mother and the queen, the treasury is empty recently, so I have to allocate some silver taels to relieve the urgent need.

Unexpectedly, the child's parents are also very "literary" and politely rejected the child with the same style, making the students very helpless.

In fact, most of the time, parents will still be soft-hearted and give students living expenses, but students can't take their parents' love for their students as "indulgence" and endless demands.

Where do college students spend their living expenses? You'll understand when you look at the bill

Many parents have a question, why do children always say that the living expenses are not enough? Are colleges really that expensive? A college student posted a breakdown of his expenses, bluntly saying that the monthly living expenses of 1,200 yuan are not enough.

It can be seen from the bill that students should spend as much as 1,350 yuan per month for three meals a month . In addition to the usual entertainment activities, living expenses and daily necessities , they have spent more than 2,570 yuan a month.

Many students also said that although their monthly living expenses are only 2,500 yuan, their actual expenses are more than 5,000 yuan.

In addition to managing the living expenses of their parents, students also need to work part-time to earn some pocket money to barely support their monthly expenses. This is on the premise that students do not need to pay dormitory fees and tuition fees.

These bills seem reasonable, but they can’t resist careful scrutiny. Drinks and snacks in the three meals are not daily necessities; parties and movies are not every week; clothes and cosmetics do not need to be bought every month. of.

There must be a reason for spending more. Parents may not have as much monthly expenses as students. If they really meet the needs of students, then 5,000 yuan per month may not be enough.

Students may wish to think about how much income is left after their parents give the 5,000 yuan for living expenses? When students spend money, they might as well ask themselves, should this money really be spent?

To live a better life, students can support themselves

It’s true to want to live a better life, but it cannot make our parents pay for it. Students should pursue the life they want after they have independent financial ability.

If students feel that their living expenses are not enough, they can negotiate with their parents and make their demands . If the demands are reasonable, we believe that our parents will not refuse.

However, if the parents are not able to bear your "extra" expenses, the students should also give their parents an understanding , and the life pressure on the parents will only be heavier than us.

There is no need for students to compare themselves with others. It is not something that others have, and we must have it too.

For students who want to pursue a better life, college students are all adults, and everyone can support themselves. They can find some jobs within their ability, and use their spare time to earn some pocket money . While satisfying themselves, they can also help reduce the burden of the family.

Today's topic: Do you think that the monthly living expenses of college students are reasonable?