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Now the living conditions have improved, and although they can live comfortably, the gap between the rich and the poor still exists. This disparity is not only manifested in adults, but also among children in kindergarten.

Now that everyone's living standards have generally improved, many young parents are more particular about food and clothing, and are willing to spend money on their children.

It can be seen from the children in kindergarten that whether it is clothing or supplies such as schoolbags and stationery, they are very delicate and elegant.

But this does not mean that every child comes from a wealthy family, because some young parents still have to pursue high-quality life even though their income is not high, which is the so-called "exquisite poverty".

Such a family is completely different from a real wealthy family, and an experienced kindergarten teacher can see the difference at a glance.

Children from poor families have narrower horizons

When the kindergarten is in class, the teacher will ask the children some questions. For example, when it comes to scenic spots, they will ask the children where they have traveled.

At this time, you will find two kinds of children with completely different reactions. One will raise his hands again and again in excitement, rushing to tell the teacher where he has been.

The other kind of child never raises his hand. Seeing other children say that they have traveled to so many places, there will be a look of loss on their faces.

Obviously, the first kind of children who love to raise their hands basically have better economic conditions in their families. Parents have extra money and energy to take their children to broaden their horizons, and the children are naturally well-informed.

For the second type of children, most of the family conditions are not very good. Parents either do not have the extra financial capacity to take their children to travel, or they have no time to distract themselves because of their busy livelihoods. The children do not have the opportunity to go out to increase their knowledge, so their horizons will be narrower.

Children from poor families are more critical

In life, you can see two kinds of people. One is usually more generous, and treats others more kindly and generously. Most of these people are rich. will be longer.

The other kind of person is more short-sighted. In order to take a little advantage, not only will they compete with others, but also will do anything. Obviously such people are relatively poor, and their economic strength limits their vision.

If the parents are like this, the children will be deeply affected. If the parents are financially confident, they will be more generous and generous, and the children will naturally be more generous.

Children from poor families are prone to low self-esteem

Although everyone is not confident when encountering things that they are not good at, children whose families are financially strapped are more likely to have inferiority complex, whether in study or other aspects of life.

Because children from wealthy families have the opportunity to see a wider world since childhood, and naturally come into contact with people of higher levels, which will make them appear more confident, and children from wealthy families can learn more specialties and skills. So self-confidence is also stronger.

However , due to the constraints of family conditions, children from poor families have no chance to see the outside world, and their parents cannot afford extra expenses to support them in learning various skills, so they often appear unconfident.

Especially when encountering problems that they have not solved, or encountering things beyond their ability, they will show withdrawal and submissiveness.

analyze

Although children in the same class may not look very different in appearance, from their usual behavior and conversation, as well as the details of how they behave in the world, you can see how the family is.

These details can be seen by kindergarten teachers at a glance, but this difference is not snobbery, but through the children's daily performance, to find a more targeted education method.

The gap between the rich and the poor is not for comparison, teachers should better understand children

Every child comes from a different family , and the specific conditions of each family are also different , which leads to differences between children, regardless of their knowledge base or psychological conditions.

Therefore, as a kindergarten teacher, you cannot use the same method to educate each child, but find the most suitable guidance method according to the different characteristics of each child.

For example, for those children whose family conditions are not very good, teachers should encourage and praise them more in peacetime to make them more confident and brave.

And pay attention to guide these children to share more with other children to avoid them being too stingy. It is also necessary to let other children discover the advantages of these children, so that even if the family is not rich, these children can be more cheerful and cheerful.

As for those children from wealthier families, some may be more squeamish or appear to be more dominant. As a teacher, they should guide these children to be more humble and polite.

Message from Feng Shengqing

Seeing the gap between the rich and the poor among students is not for comparison, nor is it for the sake of disliking the poor and loving the rich. It is to let every child understand that whether the family is poor or rich, it depends on their own efforts to live the life they want.

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