When life is overwhelming you, don't forget to give yourself a little applause, because the road is still long
When life is overwhelming and you can't breathe, don't forget to give yourself a little applause! People who are not saints and sages have no faults. When you find that you are going the wrong way, stop in time, this is success! In the journey of life, the worst situation is often not poverty or bad luck, but a state of unconsciousness and exhaustion in spirit and mood, so you have to cheer yourself up, you have to believe that people are like springs, the lower the pressure , the higher the bounce!
When life is overwhelming you, don't forget to give yourself a little applause, because the road is still long
All of us face various pressures in our lives.
As a student, you may face unsatisfactory grades, which comes from the censure of your parents. No matter how hard you work and how much more time you spend studying than others, you will still not get good grades in each test, and you will still be the last in the class. But parents just think that you are not working hard enough in school. Why do other people's children, the same school, and the same teachers also buy these teaching materials? Why do they get good grades every time, but you can't? People, why is the gap so big, your parents don't understand you.
People who have left the university campus and have worked. Every day I have to worry about the performance set by the company. The plan written by staying up late is rejected by the boss again and again, and it is rewritten and revised again. It will not work here if it is not right here. was denied. In the dead of night, working overtime alone in the company, why is life so hard? I accept criticism from my boss every day, and I dare not tell my family about the pain in my heart. All the grievances can only be slowly swallowed by myself.
People who start a family. In the 20th century, many people born in the 1980s and 1990s were house slaves and car slaves. The wages earned from hard work every month were gone within a few minutes. They did not dare to go out to eat, go shopping, or travel. Every point has to be calculated carefully. Only when the master knows that the price of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the money for the children's milk powder, the living expenses of the family, and all kinds of human relationships, is about to be overwhelmed by the mountain of life.
When life is overwhelming you, don't forget to give yourself a little applause, because the road is still long
The pressure of life faced by our generation should not be underestimated. Mortgage and car loans are so sophisticated, the cost of living is constantly increasing, and it is getting harder and harder to earn money. 80% of the wealth is in the hands of 20% of the people. Faced with the censure of the leaders, the performance cannot be completed, and the mortgage and car loans are paid regularly. I often think, why is life so difficult? Faced with the big and small pressures in our lives, what should we do?
- Make a work plan for yourself, reward and punish
Those who are reading make a study plan for themselves every day, how many words to memorize every day, how many ancient poems to memorize, how many math problems to learn to do, and they must be clear to themselves every day according to the amount.
Those who have already worked will make a work plan for themselves every day. Today, they must complete the tasks arranged by the leaders. This plan must be improved within today. The monthly performance is divided into each day, and several goals must be completed every day. .
If you complete your study plan and work plan every day, then buy some small gifts to reward yourself. I haven't eaten hot pot for a long time, so I asked a few friends to eat hot pot together. The hero of the game I love has a new skin, so I reward myself with a skin. Since life is so hard, I have completed the study and work tasks. Why can't we give ourselves a little reward?
- Read a little book every day to expand your knowledge
Don't be affected by the negative emotions brought about by studying and working every day. Books have their own gold, and develop a good habit of reading every day. If you are not satisfactory in your studies, then take a look at how the academic masters study and learn their study methods. Studying also requires skills. It is not just rote memorization that can improve your grades. A good method can improve your study. Efficiency to achieve a multiplier effect.
If you are so unhappy at work, then take a look at some books that inspire your life, see how other people get out of the predicament step by step when they encounter difficulties at work, and go to the top of their lives. Learn how they deal with problems at work Solution.
When life is overwhelming you, don't forget to give yourself a little applause, because the road is still long
- Learn to relax, listen to songs, run and play games
Don't let yourself be so tired every day, study, go out for a run after get off work, enjoy the breeze blowing your face, the lightness after sweating, go to see the uncles and aunts dancing square dance in the park, parents and children having fun, it seems Life is not so hard.
Before going to bed, soak your feet, listen to songs, relieve the fatigue of the day, don't let your brain be under pressure all the time, put on an eye patch and earplugs, don't ask about the world, and slowly fall asleep with the relaxing music.
Each of us is facing the big and small pressures brought by life. We can't think of him as a pressure, but let him be the driving force for us to move forward. Don't blame him all day long, but you should keep learning, keep improving yourself, and make yourself better and better. Life is not about putting pressure on us, it is about urging us to grow and become a better person.
Today's sharing is over here. I hope everyone can live a happy day. Don't be confused by the pressure in life. Look at the problem from another angle, and you will find that life is full of beauty. Welcome everyone to pay attention to me, let's talk about life and taste life together.