Can't find true friends at work? That's because you are so bad!

Sometimes, you can always hear some people in the workplace say to the younger generation in the tone of someone who has come before, don't waste your efforts, you can't make real friends in the workplace! The relevant survey also shows that although there are still a minority of people who think that they cannot make real friends, the proportion is an astonishing 19%; the proportion of people who think that they will definitely make real friends is 39%, but not more than half, and the remaining 42% % means that they haven't met a real friend or they can't tell. From this point of view, on this issue, there are still serious differences among people in the workplace. However, what the author wants to say is: if you can't make real friends in the workplace, that's because you are too bad!

In fact, the workplace is a relatively easy place to make friends. First of all, the time spent with colleagues generally exceeds the time spent with family members, and because of the relationship at work, colleagues have a lot of common language, which is easy to find. Friends who can relate to each other. Secondly, many people (especially men) are reluctant to take the troubles in the workplace home with the mentality of reporting good news to their family members (especially men), so as not to increase the psychological burden on their families, so they are more willing to be close to the relationship in the company Colleagues talk about their troubles, and over time they become friends who talk about everything.

But why do so many people still think it's hard to make real friends in the workplace? I think the reason lies in them.

First, the purpose is impure . Some people in the workplace are too small. The purpose of making friends is to take advantage of others, some to use other people's resources, and some to use others to climb up. All in all, they make friends not because of friendship, but to take advantage of others. , Of course, it is difficult for such a person to make real friends in the workplace, because others are not fools. After being used a few times, they will eventually see through their true colors, and naturally they will stay away from him. Therefore, if you want to make real friends in the workplace, you must first correct your purpose of making friends.

Second, the character is not good. There is also a survey on the perception of the foundation of friendship in the workplace, of which charisma accounts for 19%; integrity and honesty account for 29%. It can be seen that in the workplace , the most popular are always those with integrity, honesty, and good character.

Third, greed is easy to rot. Some people believe in multiple friends and multiple paths, so they especially like to make friends in the workplace. I can always see him busy with all kinds of friends and entertainment every day. He really has something to do, but he may not be able to find a few friends who are willing to really help. Why? Because true friends are all about making friends, and a person's energy is limited. If he is busy dealing with all kinds of friends all day, how can he have time to make friends with others? Therefore, the friends he made in such a light-hearted way can only be "gentlemen" friends who are as light as water, or even worse friends of wine and meat.

Fourth, Qu Gao and widowhood, some people in the workplace always put on a loner, arrogant and arrogant appearance, they are ignorant to everyone, and do not like to participate in group activities, such people can be Real friends are weird.

All in all, as long as the above situations are avoided, it is not difficult for professionals to find true friends in the workplace...