When mothers educate their children, they repeatedly reason with reason. Scientific investigation tells you that reasoning is not very useful.
When mothers educate their children, they repeatedly reason with reason. Scientific investigation tells you that reasoning is not very useful.
Xiao Jiang shares new educational concepts for you every day. Today, Xiao Jiang shares the educational concept for parents: mothers repeatedly reason with their children when educating their children, and scientific investigations tell you: reasoning is really not useful. Many parents now educate their children. You are especially good at talking and talking to your children, but parents, have you thought about those big things when you talk about them? Are the truths you said really useful for children's education? Xiao Jiang felt that it was of little use.
Why is it said that it is of little use? There is a saying once said: "When a scholar encounters a soldier, it is not clear why it is reasonable." This sentence is also applicable to parents educating their children. Although the child is not a soldier, the child is still young. If you tell him the big truth, can the child understand? Persuasion and education must end in failure, so the above saying should be changed to "Parents encounter bear children, and they can't make sense."
Of course, the meaning of talking about this here is not to let mothers stop disciplining their children and let their children go their own way, but to change the way, to change a way that the children can understand and not be disgusted. In fact, one of the educational methods is to dislike the chattering of parents. According to a scientific survey, 70 to 80% of children are particularly disgusted with this educational method of mothers who are chattering about the big truth behind them, especially young children. Although they don't understand what the mothers are saying, they will feel irritable and don't want to hear it. As time goes by, they will be more disgusted with this way of education when they grow up.
In fact, it’s not impossible for children to be reasonable. You need to integrate this so-called big principle. For example, integrate some big principles about education into TV dramas or cartoons that children like to watch, so that children can deeply understand The impact of this incident on him is actually the best way to educate children through words and deeds. Parents use their own actions to influence and infect their children. This is better than telling children something that he may not understand at all. The big truth is much better. Having said so much, maybe the mothers are already tired of it. Then let's take a look at several methods of parenting children after many investigations, hoping to make parents more handy in family education.