Top 10 things parents should not do
Top 10 things parents should not do
Xiaojiang shares new educational ideas for you every day. Today, the educational philosophy shared by Xiaojiang is: the top ten things parents should not do. Although children are young, they have the right to choose to fly. What does this mean? Woolen cloth? It is to tell parents not to add all the things they think are right to their children. Although a child is still young, he also has the right to choose his own life.
Now in family education, many parents will impose their own choices on their children, euphemistically, it is for the children's good, but when you do that, have you asked the children if they want this? Maybe the children don't want to follow you. What about the arrangement of life, but parents don't care about these things, they only care about whether their children can study well and whether they can become talents in the future. Although there is nothing wrong with parents paying attention to these, here Xiao Jiang hopes that parents are paying attention to their children's learning. At the same time, it can also allow children to choose their own life, and this kind of family education is the best for children.
There are also parents who are strict with their children in family education. The children have not spread their wings to fly to the place where they have their own dreams, and their wings have been broken by the strictness of their parents. In previous articles, you may mention I've been there, many parents will use the way of talking big truth when educating their children, but some parents are too much in family education, but I don't know if you are such a parent, these children will When the child is disobedient, he beats the child. Here, Xiao Jiang wants to tell those parents that doing this will seriously damage the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, so please don't beat and scold the child.
Don't beat and scold, it's just one aspect of family education that parents need to do. The most important thing is to ask parents not to interfere when their children make some choices. This will discourage children's enthusiasm for making decisions by themselves. Children will come to their parents for everything and gradually lose their independence. Therefore, in family education, parents must not let their children hinder their children's development, because although children are small, they also have the right to choose to fly. What parents should not do to their children in family education, Xiao Jiang summed up 10 points based on reports from authoritative sources, hoping to help parents.
Although children are small, they also have the right to choose to fly. Parents, you only need to be a lookout on the bow when your children grow up, telling them that there are winds and waves, and there are dangerous shoals. Please let your children decide the specific direction. .