The seven-year-old son fought with others and went home to ask his father for help. This father's approach is really exemplary
The seven-year-old son fought with others and went home to ask his father for help. This father's approach is really exemplary
Xiaojiang updates new educational concepts for you every day. The educational concepts recommended for parents today are about what parents should do when their children fight. The seven-year-old son fights with others and goes home to ask his father for help. This father's approach is really exemplary. Children's fights are inevitable in every child's growing up, but what should parents do when the children are all Woolen cloth? This is a question that many parents do not understand, and it is also a more tangled question.
When a child fights, should parents go to persuade or help? It depends on the situation. It is difficult to say exactly what to do, but today this father looks at his son's fight and asks him for help. The approach is really exemplary, but before we look at the father, Xiao Jiang also wants to let parents know that when their children are fighting, parents do something wrong. One is to know that their children are fighting. , indiscriminately, thinking that your child is wrong, and then grabbing the child to beat him, this kind of behavior of parents is very wrong, you will destroy the child's manhood by doing this, and when others bully him in the future, He may be bullied because of your beating and scolding attitude towards him this time, and since then he will become weak and introverted, no longer confident and cheerful, and then hurt the child's heart.
The other is to educate children to use violence to control violence, and tell the child, "Whoever bullies him, bully him back." Parents even cheer on the side. This kind of behavior is even worse, and it will plant a violent factor in the child. , it is very likely that the child will go astray and cause bad consequences, so when parents and children face their children, these two behaviors are not desirable. The reason is to see whose fault it is. If it is your child's fault, you should tell him that it is wrong to fight like this. If necessary, you should ask the other party to apologize. If it is not your child's fault, parents should not take big things into small ones. The attitude of trivializing, you should get a reason for your child. Of course, this reason is sure that you don't use the above method of using violence to control violence, but reason.
Parents must have good role models when educating their children, because the power of role models is endless. When you handle things, you are setting examples for your own children. Well, after so much, are the parents annoyed? ? Let's take a look at what the exemplary dad did next. I believe parents will be very impressed after reading it.
Isn't this dad doing great? I hope that parents can treat their children rationally like this father after reading it. The sharing of today's educational philosophy hopes to help parents educate their children. Parents, if you have any questions, you can leave a message and discuss it together. Xiao Jiang believes that there will be great progress in constant discussions.