In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Too many people lamented that this year seems to have gone by very fast!
Looking back on the year, the most difficult thing is myself, and the one who should be most grateful is also myself.
How much excruciating pain have you experienced? How much hardship have you endured? Others only pay attention to your results, but no one wants to know what you went through and how tired you are.
In the future, you must embrace yourself, take care of yourself a lot, and do little things that make you happy.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
- Forgive yourself and accept yourself.
There is nothing in this world that can't get through, only if you don't let yourself go, you can't get through with yourself.
Leo Tolstoy said: How great a writer is, he is only writing one-sided personalities.
Because it is impossible for us to experience the taste of life, everyone's cognition is limited, and everyone is imperfect.
Most of the things that make you miserable and tangled are self-confidence and struggle with yourself.
You must know that gold is not pure, and no one is perfect. Life is for experience. Forgiving yourself is more important than forgiving others.
Life is yours, not for anyone to see. When you know how to accept the imperfections of life, learn to forgive yourself, recognize yourself, accept yourself, and strive to improve a little every day at your own pace, life will definitely get better and better!
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
- The past is cleared, no need to entangle.
There is a thought-provoking question and answer on Zhihu: At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, if you could travel back in time, what would you save?
The high praise answer is: If life can be restarted, I am afraid that my life will be as boring as a single-player game that is manipulated. The so-called "unsatisfactory" is exactly what completes my life!
Looking back on the past, walking in the rivers and lakes, who has not been injured?
Maybe someone speaks badly, maybe someone is despicable, maybe someone hurts mercilessly, maybe someone is ruthless…
But the world is worth it, and never needs a sluggish soul and tangled emotions.
Only by facing the gift of fate calmly, sailing strong against the wind, and looking forward to new people and things, can we laugh freely in the new scenery.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Let's clear the past and move forward!
People who have no value, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes;
A missed opportunity, learn to laugh it off;
Learn to let go of what you throw away.
The future can be expected, don't let the haze of the past block the sunshine of the present.
- Lifelong learning, stay away from confusion.
Why is life so confusing?
Mr. Yang Jiang said: Your main problem is that you don't read much, but think too much.
In the past, it told us a truth: when the tide recedes, we know who is swimming naked.
Economic turmoil, increased competition, and rising barriers to employment. At the same time, the first to be eliminated are those who stop learning and rest on their laurels.
Never say hello in advance when the times abandon you. Times only reward those who are prepared.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Wu Bofan once mentioned the concept of "cognitive repetition": when most people say goodbye to their student status, they also say goodbye to the career of learning, and cognitively they have become grade repeaters.
Different from grade repetition in the conventional sense, cognitive repetition is basically difficult to detect. Two people may be of the same age and may differ in cognition by decades.
Learning is an indispensable ability at any stage of life, and it is also a career. Learning may not solve everything in life, but it can sublimate your mind and enrich your soul.
The more you learn a skill, the less you say a word of solicitation. Only by continuous learning can we avoid being abandoned by the times and create a better life. In the unknown world, I hope we can become a certain self.
- Love yourself and reward yourself.
People can only love others when they learn to love themselves.
Let me share with you a little trick to improve your happiness.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Set up a reward mechanism for yourself, and reward yourself with a gift every time you reach a small staged goal.
It can be as small as a meal, a lipstick in a hot color, or as big as a long-awaited bag.
In fact, material things are not the most important thing. When we give love and effort to life, we can feel the satisfaction and joy from the heart!
- Be candid and refuse when appropriate.
A writer I admire most is Grandma Hengzi, a 90-year-old psychiatrist. She has a point of view: the essence of life is ordinary, and only by recognizing this can we be more likely to be happy.
Carefully observe the people who live easily around them, most of them are frank and indifferent. Like a hermit in the deep mountains, he gets calm and loses calmly.
Life is for experience, you don't need to please anyone, the most important thing is to respect yourself and be kind to yourself.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Everyone should have tolerance and compassion, but also learn to refuse. Moderate selfishness, being true to yourself, can be at ease.
The best state of life is like this, do your best to do things to the extreme, and leave the rest to time to judge.
- Pay attention to health and insist on exercise.
In life, people can do many stupid things, but one of the stupidest things is neglecting health. Paying attention to health is the proof that we love life, and a healthy body is the source of our happiness.
No matter how busy you are, you should also make time to exercise. Exercise can replace health care products, but all health care products cannot replace exercise;
Eat on time and take good care of your body in order to have a healthy mental state;
Get a good night's sleep, and don't waste time and effort on people and things that aren't worth it.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
- Respect others and respect differences.
Most of us are unhappy, largely because we spend so much time trying to change other people. However, life is different, everyone is unique, it is best to have the same three views, and it is understandable that the steps are different.
I used to be passionate about arguing with readers and caring about bad reviews from readers. You know, you can express your opinions and one-sidedness through articles, and you have to allow others to dislike and disapprove.
You will be much happier if you don’t let yourself get caught up in useless arguments, and you will have more time to improve yourself.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
- Look farther and stop worrying.
Habitual anxiety is probably a common problem in today's era.
Fear and confusion about the uncertainty of the future, dare not face, want to escape, but lead to the current life in a mess. It has to be said that this negativity plagues many people.
In fact, life is composed of countless unknowns, and one moment is connected to the next moment. A lot of things that seem difficult at this stage, but looking back at them in a month or two or more, are just trivial things that are not worth mentioning.
It's better to relax your heart, stop mental internal friction, and stay happy. For the things that don't make sense, put it aside for the time being, and change the direction of the road that doesn't make sense. After all, all roads lead to Rome.
Living is actually extremely simple, there are people who love it, there is something to do, the future can be expected, that's all.
In order to live more comfortable, do these 8 small things and learn to become better and better
Happiness is actually very simple, it is to be yourself.
May we develop a correct way of life, and the beauty accumulated bit by bit will be precious!
A new starting point, let's set sail!