Wine is character. People who have these 3 kinds of behaviors at dinner should try not to make friends.
Wine is character. People who have these 3 kinds of behaviors at dinner should try not to make friends.
In our life, we will always meet a variety of people.
Some people smile at you, but they are not necessarily good people; some people are strict with you, but they are not necessarily bad people.
As the saying goes: You know horsepower from a distance, and you see people over time.
The easiest way to see if a person is worthy of friendship is to observe the details.
Listen to your voice, listen to your heart, and watch your heart. If you make a good friend, you will benefit for a lifetime; but if you make a bad friend, you may end up in trouble.
Especially at the dinner table, you must keep your eyes open when making friends.
As the saying goes, wine is character, and if you have these three kinds of behaviors at dinner, try not to make friends.
The first manifestation: drinking without people
What is drinking without people?
To put it simply, I don't like to bring other people with me when I drink, and I only drink by myself.
In any occasion, drinking must be done with respect to others before drinking it yourself. No matter what the other party's intention is, this step cannot be omitted, otherwise people will be regarded as uneducated and ignorant of the world.
Especially as a junior, you must know how to respect when there are elders present.
Upbringing is the most basic quality of a person. If you don’t even have this, then it will definitely be hard to be valued by others.
Therefore, once you meet someone who drinks without anyone at the wine table, try not to make friends.
People without education and quality are hard to eat, let alone make many connections.
The second performance: toast without dropping the glass
At the wine table, people who don't know how to drop a glass toast often don't understand the world.
Many friends may say, but it's just a glass of wine, not so much.
But in reality, it's easy for a seasoned person to see who you are through such a small detail.
As we all know, the younger generation toasts the elders, and when clinking glasses, they must lower the mouth of their own glasses, so as to show respect for the other party.
Especially in the workplace or some business banquets, every move is related to the company's image. How could it not be important in such a situation.
Therefore, if you meet such people at the dinner table, remember not to make deep friendships. Because people who don't even understand this etiquette are hard to be reused, let alone achieve great things.
The third manifestation: like to persuade wine
At the dinner table, there are always some people who like to madly persuade them to drink.
Or it's just to show off your abilities and get in the limelight. Otherwise, the emotional intelligence is too low and does not know how to take into account the feelings of others and the atmosphere of the scene.
Either way, it can be judged that this person is not worthy of deep friendship.
People who like to persuade others to drink are often annoying. Maybe others won't turn their faces on the surface, but inside they are not very optimistic, even disgusted.
Once you make friends with them, there is a good chance that you will implicate yourself.
So, when making friends, don't make friends with people who always like to persuade you to drink at the table. Maybe one day you will suffer from it and be placed by the other party.
The above are some of my opinions and experiences on making friends at the wine table. I hope to help you better know people and make high-quality circles of contacts.