People who have these 3 behaviors at the dinner table, please keep your distance

People who have these 3 behaviors at the dinner table, please keep your distance

Throughout the ages, the dinner table has always been the best place to meet people and make friends.

Because eating and drinking are the most things a person does in one's life, it is difficult to change the habit that has been cultivated for a long time.

Even if you can be deliberately reserved, you can't help but reveal some small details. It is these small details that can be worn at a glance by people with vicious eyes.

In life, whether it is a small gathering with friends, a business banquet, or an entertainment with customers, eating and drinking are inevitable.

In such a complex environment, mastering the skills of seeing people can often help you make high-quality contacts more effectively.

Here, I would like to warn everyone that the character at the wine table is the character, and those who have these three behaviors at the dinner party, please keep your distance.

The first behavior: open mouth

At the dinner table, no matter what the occasion, the more open-mouthed people are, the easier it is to cause trouble for themselves.

As the saying goes: Disaster comes out of the mouth, if you talk too much, you will lose it.

In public, speaking too much, firstly, you appear to be ruthless and ignorant of the world; secondly, you appear to be indifferent and out of order; thirdly, it is easy to be hated by others.

Maybe nothing happened on the spot, and others didn't have much reaction, but it didn't mean that others didn't mind.

In my opinion, it is better to make it clear on the spot than to be secretly hated by others, so as to avoid more serious consequences.

In life, it is best to stay away from people who are outspoken. Not only are they prone to problems themselves, but they are also likely to bring trouble to the people around them.

I think all readers and friends should understand the reason why the fire at the city gate affects Chiyu.

The second behavior: persuading excessive drinking

There are good and bad things that often happen at the dinner table when persuading wine.

If you can grasp the appropriate degree, persuasion can be a catalyst for creating atmosphere at the wine table.

But if you don't know how to grasp the scale, it's easy to be self-defeating, which not only offends people, but also damages your own image.

So, be careful when persuading you to drink. Don't persuade your leaders or elders to drink, this is a very impolite behavior.

There are not too many restrictions among peers, and they are free to play according to the relationship. As long as it's not too much, it's generally no problem.

At the dinner table, people who persuade to drink too much have low emotional intelligence, can't understand the situation, and lack vision. It's best to stay away from them, and don't make fun of yourself.

The third act: toasting without rules

Toasting is a science, some people think it is dross, but some people think it is very practical.

At the very least, in the higher-end class, the rules for toasting are more numerous and widely used.

Even, in some occasions, or those who are engaged in related work, must learn some knowledge and rules at the wine table.

The more public it is, the less you can toast casually. Otherwise, not only will you lose face, but you will also touch other people's bad heads and make a big joke.

There are rules and regulations in toasting, and at different times, different people are toasted, and different gestures or methods need to be used to say different toasting words.

It seems that I am few, but in fact the knowledge inside is very deep.

I like to toast randomly at the wine table. It seems that people who are familiar with everyone are best not to have deep friendships. Because such people feel good about themselves and go their own way, it is very easy to cause trouble for themselves

So, to avoid yourself being affected, it is better to stay away.

The above are some of my views and experiences on making contacts and getting to know people at the dinner table, hoping to help you successfully establish a high-quality network circle.