The 5 major manifestations of low emotional intelligence, freshmen should correct them immediately, otherwise they will be excluded by roommates

In the process of getting along with others, emotional intelligence is more important than IQ. People with high emotional intelligence are never short of friends; while people with low emotional intelligence are often excluded or even isolated. Today, my senior will tell you about 5 signs of low emotional intelligence . Freshmen should correct them immediately, otherwise you may be rejected by your roommates.

1. Like to embarrass people in public.

There are always some people in the university who seem to be carefree on the surface, can make any jokes, and like to reveal other people's pain points in crowded situations to show their superiority, and by the way, ask for a sense of existence. Regarding this point, the senior sister has personal experience. A good-looking girl in the same dormitory said that someone was chasing her recently, but repeatedly emphasized that the boy who chased her was not worthy of her, and also said that she would give another dormitory looking slightly different. The introduction of a good girl, anyone with a discerning eye can see that, although it is a joking tone, it is also in disguise to elevate herself and belittle others. For this kind of person with a sense of superiority, it is best for everyone to stay away.

2. Always want to be better than others in words.

This kind of person has a characteristic that no matter what others say, they are always blaming, refuting, and refuting, and they are always in a position of being unreasonable. For them, language is not communication, but a conversation The war is won, and I feel that I have won the face, but after a long time, no one is willing to communicate with you.

3. Do not sleep at night and disturb others to rest.

In college, the time is relatively free, and there is no pressure to go to school, so some people start to indulge themselves. When everyone else is sleeping, she is chasing dramas all night, and her voice is not spoken, and she makes a few strange screams or laughter from time to time. ; There are some people who video chat with their boyfriends all night, and the ringtones and button sounds are not turned off when typing and chatting, making noise constantly; there are some classmates who you don’t understand at all what he thinks, playing with mobile phones during the day and studying at night, Turning on the desk lamp and studying until more than 2 am is not a big deal for people with good sleep quality, but for some people who are more sensitive to light sources, there is no way to fall asleep at all. This long-term development will also accumulate a lot of contradictions.

4. Pointing fingers at the behavior and appearance of others.

There are always some people who are born with a sense of superiority. They like to point fingers at other people's behavior and dress, and they set off their own nobleness by belittling others. Such arrogant people who don't know how to respect others will also not be respected by others. .

5. Be more honest, you must prove that you are right

This is more applicable to scientific research, but in interpersonal communication, communication is mainly for connecting feelings. If you have to be serious, the end result is mostly that the two sides broke up and the relationship gradually deteriorated.