New students should pay attention to these three situations, they must not be cowardly, otherwise they will suffer.
For prospective freshmen, when they first enter the university, they will adhere to the principle that more is worse than less. Everyone is new here, and they are not familiar with everything here, so they are very careful in what they do and what they say. However, university is a small society. It is no longer as simple as junior high school. You will meet all kinds of people, and some things are absolutely intolerable. Let's talk about those things that need to be said "NO".
The first thing is always being troubled by others and making unreasonable demands
After entering the university, in order to live in harmony with their classmates, many people generally do not choose to refuse their requests. Even if they make some inappropriate requests, they will make concessions because of their feelings, but some people will make progress. , always has the cheek to trouble others, such as never asking you if you are on the way and asking you to help him with meals when you go out, always using your things but never returning them on your own initiative, always deadlifting without asking your wishes Accompany him to various dinner parties and so on. Occasionally once or twice is okay, but over time they will feel that everything you do is for granted, and once you refuse, it will make him think that you are doing it on purpose. If you encounter this kind of thing, you must Reject them at the right time, don't get used to them all the time, or you'll fall into this situation often.
The second thing, ask you to borrow money but not pay it back
Sometimes classmates will inevitably encounter some difficulties or small troubles, so it is reasonable to ask you to borrow money at this time. However, some people really do not understand gratitude. You help them solve their urgent needs, but they are rich but do not take the initiative to repay the money. , when you ask him for money, he will find various reasons to shirk, and even say that you are stingy. If you are afraid of affecting the relationship with your classmates and do not want the money, you will be the only one who will be angry in the end. When everyone is in trouble, it’s okay to borrow money, but it’s not difficult to borrow money and then borrow money. If he really treats you as a friend, he won’t put you in such a dilemma. The situation must take the initiative to get the money back, and you can't let yourself suffer a dumb loss in vain. After all, this money is also hard earned by the parents.
The third thing, being bullied
Although people have become more mature when they go to college, there are still some people who will form small groups, especially in the dormitory, there will always be things that happen to be isolated and excluded. If you don't resist, you feel that it is useless to argue with them, and it will intensify the contradictions between them. But the more you avoid them, the more presumptuous you will feel, and you will feel that you are easy to bully. Therefore, when others bully you, you must face it positively and fight bravely. Only in this way can the problem be fundamentally solved.