Even if there is nothing to talk about between colleagues, you can't talk about these three money matters, and those who owe their mouths will suffer from secret losses.
The ancients have long warned the world that wealth is not exposed, and it is suffocating to make a fortune. Now "showing off your wealth" is either cheating yourself or cheating your father. In the workplace, colleagues sometimes spend more time with each other than family members. Because of the conflict of interests, the relationship between colleagues is very delicate. No matter what we talk about, we will maintain a safe boundary. Can't talk nonsense. For example, colleagues are determined not to talk about these three money matters, they can't eat and walk around, and the dumb can't tell the hardships of eating Coptis chinensis.
Even if there is nothing to talk about between colleagues, you can't talk about these three money matters, and those who owe their mouths will suffer from secret losses.
[1] You can't talk about making a fortune in stocks.
There is a story that Xiao Li likes to speculate in stocks, and he likes to brag even more. When he goes up a little, he brags to his colleagues and makes a profit by catching a dark horse. Later, it was found that the relationship between colleagues was getting colder and colder, and Xiao Li couldn't figure it out, so he told his wife about his distress. My wife said that since then, I kept my mouth shut when I made money, and said everywhere when I lost money. Sure enough, after a few months, the relationship between colleagues is getting better and better.
There is another negative example. Xiao Zhou also made this mistake. He made more than 100,000 yuan in the last bull market, and he pretended to be a stock god. He showed off that he made millions of dollars everywhere, making his colleagues envious, jealous, and hateful. If the office lights are turned off, the eyes of colleagues will definitely flash. with "red light". As a result, the immediate boss encountered a difficult situation at home, and said to Xiao Zhou, I heard that you just made 2 million, can you lend me 200,000 to turn it around first. Xiao Zhou was dumbfounded. If he didn't borrow it, he would immediately offend the leader. Xiao Zhou sat on the wax, and went home and slapped himself.
Even if there is nothing to talk about between colleagues, you can't talk about these three money matters, and those who owe their mouths will suffer from secret losses.
【2】You can't talk about making a fortune part-time.
The rise of the Internet economy has given more office workers the opportunity to earn money part-time. Most of the domestic workplaces are still conservative workplaces, and things like part-time work to make money are still regarded as "not doing a proper job, eating inside and out". Therefore, no matter how strong the relationship between colleagues is, don't reveal the secret of your part-time job to make money.
Xiaolin is a person with strong vanity. He was unsatisfactory in the workplace. He used his hobbies to do self-media, micro-business and selling courses at home. He caught up with a wave of dividends and made a little money. Once his boss criticized him, he came back angrily and said to his colleagues that Laozi earns more money than his salary in his spare time, and he will not look at his face sooner or later. This word spread quickly, and it happened that the company was planning to eliminate and lay off employees at the bottom, so they thought of Kobayashi at the same time, and "recommended" Kobayashi for dismissal on the grounds of incompetence.
Xiaolin went to his boss, and the boss said with a smile, I heard that you can earn tens of thousands in your spare time by playing casually, and you still care what you do with this shitty job. Kobayashi said, I do part-time jobs in my spare time, which doesn't affect my work. The boss is angry, are you distracted at work? Do you get money off work without taking a break, and don’t be lazy when you go to work? After Xiao Lin was fired, the bonus period also passed, and it became more and more difficult to make money from part-time jobs.
Even if there is nothing to talk about between colleagues, you can't talk about these three money matters, and those who owe their mouths will suffer from secret losses.
[3] The words of additional rewards cannot be said.
Many companies implement the secret salary system. In fact, in Chinese culture, people like to inquire about other people's income, and they like to compare their lives. When you meet a gentleman, I wish you a better life than him, and when you meet an ordinary person, I envy you for a better life than him. Many people have the mentality of "blaming oneself for nothing and hating others for having". I would rather not get it myself than let my colleagues around me get it, because my colleagues get along well, and I don't feel good about it.
Xiao Zhang is kind-hearted, outspoken, and can't hold back things in his mouth. In this half-year award, in addition to a bonus on the surface, the leader quietly distributed 20,000 additional rewards to several backbones. Colleagues who get extra rewards are tacit and secretly happy. In the evening, Xiao Zhang was having a string with a few close colleagues. The happiness came too suddenly, and he couldn't hold it back. After three cups of horse pee, I told my colleagues, I paid the bill today, and the boss saw that my performance was good, and secretly sent me an extra 20,000 yuan. I didn’t notice that several colleagues’ faces were green.