When you are middle-aged, optimize your circle of friends. Please stay away from these three types of people.

When a person reaches middle age, there are old people at the top and young people at the bottom, and there are many responsibilities, and there is no room for slack. Whether in first-tier cities or second- and third-tier cities, there will be various expenses such as housing loans and car loans, and the salary always feels insufficient.

I have seen a saying on the Internet that you can give a middle-aged person any task, and he will not complain and will complete it very hard. Because of the responsibilities and debts he bears, he can only bear them silently.

Middle-aged people have been so difficult.

However, in order to make the road smoother in the future, some people will try their best to broaden their social circle. However, when a person reaches middle age, time is precious. If you want to socialize and be diligent, you must "slim down" your social circle and reduce unnecessary social activities.

When you are middle-aged, optimize your circle of friends. Please stay away from these three types of people.

We are inseparable from friends and relatives in our life, but some friends or relatives are not good for our own life, but may be a stumbling block in your future, so why not stay away. Especially the following three people.

01 wine and meat friends

A friend recounted his father's experience. His father used to be in business and earn a little money. At that time, he often played cards and drinks with friends. When he came home, he also said that there were many friends outside. However, he was once cheated into a business partnership with a friend and got into a fight with the man, and he ended up hurting his left hand. During the hospitalization, none of his friends came to see him, and he became silent and his eyes were a little dull.

Friends who are eating and drinking can only stay on eating, drinking and having fun. If you really encounter something, you may never find them.

If you are middle-aged, stay away as soon as possible, otherwise you will waste a lot of time and you may hurt yourself.

When you are middle-aged, optimize your circle of friends. Please stay away from these three types of people.

02 Do not see your good relatives or friends

I once saw such a question and answer on Wukong Questions and Answers: His father did a good job in business and made some money, and he usually donated a little money to help relatives around him. However, there is a relative, his uncle, who often speaks ill of his father in front of him, saying that his father is not good, compared to his uncle. He wanted to fight back on the spot, but as a junior, he still endured it.

His father had already taken care of his uncle, but his uncle was still so ungrateful. His uncle would be like this, just not seeing his father get better.

Guo Degang once said to Yue Yunpeng: "People who knew you before, or didn't know very well, were close or not very close, would talk about you. They would talk about you, but they would hardly say good things. People When it comes to you, you will say: Do you know Yue Yunpeng? It turned out to be from our village. I don't like to see him. He is popular now. Back then... if he couldn't reach you, he would definitely not say hello."

When you are middle-aged, optimize your circle of friends. Please stay away from these three types of people.

Some people say: "Do not suffer from widowhood, but suffer from unevenness."

In life, many people are in such an attitude that they would rather not have it than see others have it. If there is no money, everyone has to have no money, otherwise the heart will be unbalanced.

Keep your distance and help those relatives and friends who truly bless you.

03 Ambiguous opposite sex

When a person reaches middle age, after a long period of marriage, he has long lost the sense of novelty, and it is inevitable that he will meet some people of the opposite sex that make him happy at work. Some people will have ambiguous feelings and want to get back the "passion" they once had. After a long time, naturally there are too many complaints against the people next to the pillow, and the marriage will be in crisis.

In order to pursue "passion", the long-term and stable marriage has contradictions, which is really worth the loss.

Therefore, when dealing with the opposite sex, it is necessary to know how to keep a certain distance and avoid unnecessary trouble, which is what middle-aged people should stick to.

When you are middle-aged, optimize your circle of friends. Please stay away from these three types of people.

When people reach middle age, time will feel faster, and this time is still spent on people who are not worth it. This is simply a kind of disrespect for one's own life.

It is said that if you have to give up, you will get it. Only by abandoning those false feelings can we exchange for sincerity; by abandoning snobbish relatives, we can have more time to care for relatives who are more worthy of attention; by abandoning the ambiguous opposite sex, we can give love to a partner who is worthy of deep love.

When a person reaches middle age, half of his life is over, stop doing those meaningless things, and do something that makes life full of happiness.