If you fall, don't cry. When you give up on yourself, the whole world can't save you. Adults must see it!
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It's not easy for everyone in this world to live
In life, no one will always be smooth sailing, and no one will live in flowers and applause forever.
A person's life is constantly growing up through countless trials and tribulations.
It’s just that some people never get up again when they fall; some people give up on themselves, indulge themselves, and eventually self-destruct when they fall; of course, some people adjust their mentality after falling again and again, start again, and finally get success.
In work and life, we often like to envy others, the success they have achieved, and everything they have. But you can't see the hard days and hard work behind the success of others.
No one in this world is really easy to live, but what we see is always the glamorous appearance of others. Don't look at how glamorous some celebrities, entrepreneurs, and rich people look, in fact, the anxiety, pain, and depression behind them are no less than our ordinary people.
If you fall, don't cry. When you give up on yourself, the whole world can't save you. Adults must see it!
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Only you can save yourself in this world
I have a friend. Her family is in business and is very rich. Her father is working hard all year round. Only 56 years old.
She had just graduated from college that year, and because of her introverted personality, she actually didn't have any big ambitions for the future. She just wanted to be able to do something she liked easily after graduation.
But suddenly the big tree behind her fell like this. As a last resort, she and her brother who was 2 years older than her could only carry the family business. In recent years, I have to face not only the coveting of other family members for my father's business, but also the difficulties of many external customers.
For this reason, she secretly cried many times, but every time she cried, she told herself that she must be strong. She said: "No one in this world will sympathize with you, and when you give up on yourself, the world can't save you."
I haven't seen her for many years. I met her at a friend's company banquet a month ago and found that her whole person has changed, becoming more capable, sleek and mature. I can no longer find the shadow of the little girl from ten years ago.
She said: "The past ten years have not been easy. No one can understand the hard work and sadness involved. Others always envy my splendid appearance, but they cannot see the price I have paid behind my back.
When others are enjoying the happiness of love, I am working hard on the journey; when others have fallen into sweet dreams at night, I am still preparing for the negotiation with the client the next day; when others are laughing and playing with friends, However, I forced a smile on the wine table, making my stomach feel so uncomfortable.
I'm almost 36 years old now, but I haven't had time to fall in love, and I'm still single. Saying this, maybe you don't believe it, and many people don't believe it, but it's the truth.
If you fall, don't cry. When you give up on yourself, the whole world can't save you. Adults must see it!
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Be yourself, don't envy anyone
In this world, everything is about balance, there is good and there is bad, where there is sunshine, there is darkness, and where there is happiness, there is pain. If you want to get more than others, you must give more than others.
So don't envy anyone, don't deliberately slander anyone, everyone comes to this world once, and it's not so easy to leave. On the way to growth, we will face various challenges, encounter various setbacks, have experienced hesitation, pain and helplessness, and have encountered failure and tears.
When others fall, give others an encouraging look; when others cry, give others a warm hug. Perhaps such a move of yours can help those around you regain their confidence in the future.
If you fall, don't cry. When you give up on yourself, the whole world can't save you. Adults must see it!
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7 Ways to Boost Your Motivation During Setbacks
- Be optimistic.
Optimism and motivation go hand in hand, and if you're not a naturally optimistic person, think about how a friend who is more optimistic than you would view the current situation.
- Build good interpersonal relationships.
Studies have found that people who have good relationships with family and friends are happier and more motivated.
- Eliminate emotional crisis in setbacks.
Coping with difficult situations is hard enough, stop stressing yourself and overreacting with urgency and try to focus on the current action.
- Take care of yourself.
When you get enough sleep, nutrition, and exercise, you can tolerate even greater setbacks.
- See setbacks as opportunities to grow and learn about yourself.
This attitude allows you to take a broader view of the current situation.
- Cultivate positive perspectives.
Remind yourself that you have strengths and resources that will help you through difficult situations and setbacks.
- Set goals and act on them.
Having your own goals and taking steps to improve your current situation can make you more motivated, study finds