Network is money: remember these 4 points, let the 'noble people' see you
In the process of our growth, no matter what age group we are, we all hope to meet a noble person who is proficient in the "Eighteen Great Martial Arts" and lead us through the "mountains, seas and seas" and usher in an open life. Enhance your own value. Only people with the same frequency can generate sparks of thinking and more communication. If we want to chat ourselves, we should keep learning, mastering one field, knowing many fields. For now, I should learn the content of the positioning field first, i.e. specialize in one. Make yourself more valuable professionally and be able to provide more value to others.
1 Show yourself
These are impetuous times and no one has time to think about who you are, what you do, and how capable you are. Therefore, we should learn to show ourselves and know how to sell ourselves. "The fragrance of wine is also afraid of deep alleys." In the past, I always stubbornly believed that it was reasonable to say to my classmates and friends that over time, I would not explain and "show off". At the time, I thought it was modesty and good character. Now I guess it's just my old ego. Fortunately, now I know how to market myself, present myself, and learn to express my past title experiences in a timely manner. In the interview process from graduation to the present, I have received offers from more than 95% of the companies (I interviewed more than 40 companies). I will also appropriately demonstrate my worth to new colleagues and friends.
Network is money: remember these 4 points, let the "noble people" see you
2 reliable
I often read Uncle Cat's articles, and he mentioned more than once that he should be a reliable person. Everything has an account, everything has a landing, everything has an echo. Even if the reply is not timely due to special circumstances, the reason should be explained and the reply should be made immediately. Overdraft credit is a hundred times scarier than overdraft money.
This reminds me of one of my college roommates. No matter who has something to do in our dorm, she always likes to ask her for help, not only because she can do it, but because she can do it well. She is reliable. Because we've always looked to her for help, we look to her for value, and she's always been a value provider. Over time, the more important we are in the dorm, the more we will invisibly respect him.
- Be a great person
Provide value to others without expecting anything in return. Be selfless. When I help someone, I help them wholeheartedly instead of thinking twice about whether he will help me in the future, etc. Believe that energy circulates. You have helped others today, and you will surely return your help in the way you need in the future. I was a little wary in college, fresh out of college. I take the initiative to help others. I hope one day I can come back. The pattern is too small! Now that I've been through a lot more, I realize that a lot of super bulls have learned new things and their minds have broadened. Help those in need without asking for anything in return. As the saying goes, the praise of the good is the good, and the punishment of the wicked is the bad.
Network is money: remember these 4 points, let the "noble people" see you
4 Willingness to seek help
It's easier to ask for help if you don't know. I'm always embarrassed to ask others for help. I have a lot of questions, but I always think my problems are low-level and don't ask for help. Therefore, many teaching assistants were added. Ah, the WeChat of one's powerful people is just another person in WeChat, and it is useless.
Good people are willing to help others. After that, we should break the limits of our thinking. If you do not understand, ask in time
5 Summary
In this society, we do not know all aspects of things so thoroughly. Even if you can't do the best now, be the most diligent and positive, and ask yourself the standards of the future. The biggest charm of people is to have a sunny mentality, and flashiness is always cloudy. Cheerful attitude, no worries about gains and losses, follow fate. Whether a person can succeed or not, a large proportion comes from relationships, that is, on the way to success in creating the “golden veins” of wealth, connections are more important than knowledge, and developing interpersonal relationships should be our most important thing.