Whether a man is doing well or not will be affected by these 3 factors and has little to do with your diligence

Hard work alone is not enough for a man to do well and become a successful person. There are many people who have fallen into a misunderstanding, thinking that as long as they work hard, there will be rewards, and they will be able to do well. I can't say you're wrong about this idea, but I can tell you 100% that it's definitely one-sided.

If a person can make a lot of money and become rich by hard work, then there will be no poor people in the world. In fact, whether a man does well or not is affected by these three factors and has little to do with your diligence.

1. Whether it has the ability to quickly adapt to the "environment".

"Natural selection, survival of the fittest", human beings are essentially animals, even in today's highly civilized society, they still follow this natural law, and it is impossible for anyone to shake it.

The development of anything cannot be static. Therefore, people who can quickly adapt to the "environment" are definitely better than those who stick to the rules and don't know how to be flexible and rigid!

Why do we sometimes go to class reunions, and people who were not diligent or diligent in school when they were students, now become a big boss who makes a lot of money? Because of their strong ability to adapt to the environment, they can adapt to the needs of the development of the situation.

If you communicate with them, you will find that the reason why they can get along well is that they all have a common characteristic, that is, they can be "smooth and sophisticated" and will never be too rigid. If you don't believe me, you can look at the unchanging people around you. In the end, none of them got along well.

Therefore, the most important ability of a man is to have the ability to quickly adapt to the "environment", so that you can be like a duck in water in any situation, and you can do it with ease, even if you don't want to succeed!

2. Do you often deny yourself?

If a man wants to be successful, he must have self-confidence. Self-confidence is given by himself, not by others. And many people don't understand this, especially in the workplace.

For example, many leaders in the workplace will assign important tasks to employees. Generally, leaders will arrange jobs that are suitable for each employee based on their abilities and actual conditions.

However, there are often situations in the workplace where plans cannot keep up with changes, so sometimes, leaders can only assign tasks that are slightly beyond their abilities to some employees.

But some employees will deliberately say no, because they're too sure they're going to screw things up and don't want to take on important or difficult tasks. In short, it is to do "self-denial" and deny yourself from the bottom of your heart.

At this time, directly rejecting the leader will often offend the other party, especially those leaders who value face more, which will make the leader feel that the employee is too incompetent and unbearable to use. You said that you have left such a bad impression on the leaders. If there are good things in the future, will the leaders still think of you?

3. Do you often reflect on yourself?

The ancients said: "I examine myself three times a day, and I can be a teacher." The better a person is, the more often he will reflect on himself, because wealth is difficult to obtain, but it is very easy to squander it. The more people who understand this, the better off he tends to be.

Why do some men make a lot of money, but can't keep their wealth? It is because they are arrogant, even invincible, and wantonly squandering money, so in the end they return to the starting point and become impoverished.