When a person reaches middle age, the poorer he is, the more 'diligent' he will show in three aspects, which is very accurate

When a person reaches middle age, you have to obey the old, because at this time it is like stepping into the "twilight", whether in life or in the workplace, no matter how hard you struggle, it is difficult for you to fight against a young and energetic young man. Some middle-aged people have struggled for most of their lives and have not made a "famous". In fact, when a person reaches middle age, the poorer he is, the more "diligent" he will show in three aspects. It is very accurate, you really don't believe it!

1. Diligently make up for your shortcomings and give up your own expertise.

When a person reaches middle age, the most fearful thing is that your efforts are in the wrong direction. Many middle-aged people do not understand this truth, and even enjoy it, and go further and further on the wrong road.

Some middle-aged people are always working very hard to make up for their shortcomings, and for this reason they even deliberately give up their expertise to ensure that they have more energy and time to make up for their shortcomings.

For example, for some reason, I want to do the job I am least good at, and I am convinced that as long as I work hard and work hard, it will definitely pay off. However, the reality is often that the harder you try to do this, the more shortcomings you will have, and the worse you will be.

When a person reaches middle age, the most important thing about being a person is to have self-knowledge. When you are young, you can fight and keep trying, because at this time you are young and energetic and have plenty of time.

However, when you are middle-aged, if you are still diligently making up for your shortcomings and giving up your expertise for this, then you are irresponsible for yourself and your family!

You can look at good friends and family around you. They rely entirely on their strengths, not their weaknesses.

2. Diligently make useless contacts.

When you reach middle age, your life trajectory has been basically determined at this time, and there will not be too many changes. When you are young, it is natural to have "one more friend and one more way", but when people reach middle age, there is no need to make various contacts diligently, especially those "useless" contacts.

What are "useless" contacts? It mainly refers to those people who will not help you in your future life, such as "friends with wine and meat". Such contacts will not only not help you, but will cause you both financial and physical harm.

There are many middle-aged people who often have various entertainments. On the surface, it seems that they are trying to make friends all over the world and expand their network. However, in fact, it is all useless, because the friends who talk at the wine table are often "wine and meat friends"! You treat guests, drink wine, and eat meat, and they naturally call you brothers and sisters with enthusiasm, as if their relationship with you is "hard", but once you have something to trouble them, they run faster than rabbits!

Therefore, when a middle-aged person reaches middle age, don’t be diligent in making useless contacts. If you have this skill, you might as well spend more time with your family and children. This is where a middle-aged person should be most diligent!

Three, diligently manage other people's "business".

When people reach middle age, sometimes they will inevitably be idle and feel very bored. Some middle-aged people choose to play ball, take a walk, and exercise their bodies; some middle-aged people will raise birds, watch the sun, and cultivate their sentiments. These hobbies are very good and healthy.

However, some middle-aged people prefer less healthy things, such as diligently taking care of other people's "nosy".

For example, when there is a conflict in the neighbor's house, he has to join in the fun and get involved in other people's family affairs; when relatives and friends encounter difficulties, he has to forcibly intervene, showing that he is very loyal, It is very affectionate, but the end result is often "adding fuel to the fire" and helping others "disadvantage".

When you are middle-aged, don't meddle with other people's "gossip" diligently, otherwise your popularity will get worse and worse, and you will naturally get worse and worse.