WeChat's Human Recognition Technique: These 3 inconspicuous little details can reveal a person's true face

Many friends will "judging people by their appearance". For example, when they meet someone for the first time, they will preliminarily judge whether the other person's character is good or bad and whether it is worth making friends with them based on the other person's clothes and manners. In fact, we can also "know people" through WeChat: these three inconspicuous little details can reveal a person's true face.

1. In the circle of friends, there is a person's attitude towards life.

There are many people who will share their insights on life to the circle of friends. From the circle of friends, we can see a person's cultivation and emotional intelligence, a person's level and interest.

People who often show off and like to compare in the circle of friends must be full of vanity; people who often share optimism in the circle of friends must be people who manage their lives well.

The author has a distant relative who is an elderly person who is in his sixtieth year. He posts on his Moments almost every day: he cooked a sumptuous meal for his family, his grandson is growing up every day...

The author also has a friend. Since she became a mother, her WeChat Moments have become a photo album of her child's growth, recording many beautiful moments of her child's growth, such as the first time the child learned to walk, the first time he went to kindergarten.. .....

Every time I look at her circle of friends, I feel very emotional. I can feel the joy of being surrounded by happiness through the screen. No matter how busy she is, she still has time to stay in life and record a little beauty. And she is indeed a positive and happy person in real life.

The circle of friends is a business card for everyone, and what kind of attitude you have in life is presented in it one by one.

2. Speech at every turn, regardless of the feelings of others.

First of all, we have to admit that there are many people in life who are too lazy to type. Voice is indeed a more convenient way to communicate, but this convenience is only one-sided. Smart people know that it is impolite and low emotional intelligence to use WeChat to send a voice, because everyone has their own rhythm of life. You use words to communicate, on the one hand to avoid difficulties in understanding, on the other hand to avoid causing trouble to the other party in inappropriate situations.

For example, when there are many people outside, you have to try to understand your non-standard words when you turn on the voice, which sounds very laborious; in meetings or other serious occasions, if you accidentally touch the voice information, the external voice will give you People are extremely embarrassed.

People with high emotional intelligence know how to think about others, and the things that can be communicated with chat tools are usually not very urgent things, so if there is anything, try to communicate in words instead of voice, wouldn’t it be smoother to communicate directly by phone?

In the workplace, leaders can also use this method to judge whether an employee has emotional intelligence and is worthy of reuse.

A leader came to inspect the production line of the workers alone. He encountered a certain point of doubt, so he sent a message on WeChat to ask the relevant responsible personnel for specific matters. The other party quickly replied to the leader, it turned out to be a voice over, no wonder the efficiency is so high. But the leader is not good, because the roar of the machines on the production line is one after another, and the leader can't hear it clearly for a long time. In addition, the other party's Mandarin is not standard, with a dialect accent, even using the "voice-to-text" function. Good to use. The leader became angry and severely criticized the employee at a small meeting before get off work that day.

Third, text chat expression can also highlight a person's personality.

Simple text chat expressions can also reflect a person's personality. For example, the following two chat methods can reflect the specific personality of the other party.

1. People who like one sentence in one line when replying.

When such people reply to you, they are often more "impatient". For example, if they want to express a certain meaning, they will often split them into several phrases to reply to you. They can always make two or three words into one sentence, and sometimes reply to you. A sentence can even be split into five sentences.

These people are usually more sensitive and impatient. They care about whether they can be recognized by others, so when chatting with others on WeChat, they will urgently send out unedited words to express that they are communicating with you and let them You take him to heart.

2. I like to use exclamation points instead of periods.

When you communicate with such people in words, you will obviously feel that their chatting is very blunt, and they have a lot of exclamation marks. They really like to put an exclamation mark at the end of every sentence when they reply to you! It seems that every chat is like the other party is strengthening his attitude, you will feel very uncomfortable, as if the other party is ordering you, rather than communicating with you friendly,

Such people tend to think directly, usually have high self-esteem, attach importance to their own opinions, are more stubborn, and are not very good at interpersonal relationships.

The above 3 inconspicuous little details in WeChat can reveal the true face of a person and let you recognize the true character of others.