The more unpromising people in the dinner party, the more they like to secretly do 3 little tricks, no wonder the popularity is poor.
Dinner is the best occasion to see a person's true face. As long as you carefully observe each person's demeanor and actions, you can roughly see whether a person is capable and promising.
People with good personal qualities may not be successful, but people with poor personal qualities, unless they are said to be a second generation or a "nouveau riche", they must be very poor and have no prospects.
In fact, the more unpromising people in the dinner party, the more they like to secretly do 3 small actions. It is no wonder that the popularity is poor and no one cares. When you meet such a person, it is better for you to stay far away, so as not to be lowered by the other party.
1. Drinking and doing small actions
If you go to dinner parties a lot, you're sure to find some people sneaking up on little tricks while drinking. For example, when others sincerely toast him, others really drink it, but he "pretends to drink", either by secretly pouring wine when others are not paying attention, or by touching it with a glass of wine, in any case, he will not drink it.
Although it is said that this kind of behavior is to protect oneself and make oneself drink less alcohol, but in the eyes of others, it is not face-saving and unpromising. If you're drinking with a good friend, it's okay if no one exposes it. However, if you are discovered by those grumpy people in front of ordinary people, do you think this kind of drinking and small tricks can have a good end? All face is lost to the "grandma" house! It's so boring!
A person like this who even drinks and likes to secretly engage in petty tricks is destined to be someone who can't get on the "table", because he doesn't understand the respect that should be given to interpersonal communication, and it is strange that he is not ridiculed by others.
Two, pick three pick four
Some people like to pick and choose when they attend other people's banquets, and they always talk about complaining, like a "resentful woman". For example, when you arrive at the banquet venue, you complain that the restaurant is too low-grade, the place is not well chosen, and the dishes are not delicious. In short, picking a lot of faults out, embarrassing the owner and losing face.
Moreover, such picky people are also very restless at the wine table. As soon as the waiter brings a plate of dishes, such people immediately use chopsticks to turn over the plate to pick the dishes, pick from the east, turn to the west, and turn a dish. The dishes are turned over in a mess, and the first thing I like to eat is picked away, and I don't care about other people's feelings at all.
After the dinner was over, these people started gossiping again, saying that they didn't eat and drink well, and that the host of the treat was too stingy and too stingy, typical of "holding up the bowl to eat meat, putting down chopsticks and scolding mother".
This kind of picky person has no pattern in his chest, he is selfish, he only thinks about himself, even when he eats a meal, let alone expect him to have much ability in his career.
3. Let’s eat and spit, and make big noises from time to time
If it is usually at home, or gathering with a few relatives and friends, it doesn't matter if you don't pay attention to your eating image. However, some people who participated in a crowded dinner party completely disregarded their own image and ate carelessly.
For example, he made a loud smashing sound, for fear that others would not know how good he was eating, or the chopsticks and spoons clapped the dishes. This kind of sound is really very uncomfortable to listen to, and it is too unappetizing.
If this type of person is your friend and you sit next to him, you will feel ashamed! Although it is said that you have to eat and drink happily to participate in a dinner party, but you can't completely ignore other people's feelings, right?
Summarize
The more unpromising people in the dinner party, the more they like to secretly do the above 3 small actions, no wonder the popularity is poor. If you have such a person around you, don’t have too much contact with them. After all, as the saying goes, “Things gather together, and people are divided into groups.” If you associate with such a worthless person, it will only make other people feel that you are also a People with bad behavior. Don't feel that these words are too selfish, because society is such a reality!