I kindly introduced a high-paying job to my female colleague, she was so happy, but I was stunned the next day

Xiao Zhang has worked in a private company for more than three years. Although he didn't make a lot of money, he did well in the company with his strong work ability.

Not long ago, Xiao Zhang received a call from a "headhunter". It turned out to be another well-known company in the industry. He wanted to dig Zhang's "corner". Xiao Zhang originally wanted to agree, but after listening to the job responsibilities introduced by the other party , I found that it is not suitable for me. Besides, Xiao Zhang is also doing a good job in this company, and there is still a lot of room for development, so he does not plan to change jobs.

However, Xiao Zhang did not give up this opportunity. He replied to the headhunter on the phone and told him that he could recommend the position to another colleague. The headhunter naturally agreed happily.

Xiao Zhang has a female colleague named Xiao Liu. Originally, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Liu had a very general relationship, but once they were at a dinner party and accidentally learned that they both graduated from the same university and were alumni. So later, they often met in private, and they went back and forth, and they could be regarded as good friends.

Xiao Zhang secretly introduced this high-paying and well-paying job to Xiao Liu, and Xiao Liu is also very happy. After all, this is a good opportunity, and the leaders always deliberately target Xiao Liu. Xiao Liu feels that the job is not good recently. Looking for it, so I can only swallow my anger and obey. As a result, now Xiao Zhang gave her such a good opportunity, and Xiao Liu was naturally happy.

Xiao Zhang was also very happy. After all, he helped Xiao Liu. However, what Xiao Zhang never expected was that the next day he was "jumped to another job".

It turned out that Xiao Liu was very happy when he had the opportunity to change jobs, thinking that he was about to leave the company, so he shared with a few colleagues in the office who had a good relationship with him that Xiao Zhang recommended her to go to a good company.

However, it didn't take long for Xiao Liu's remarks to spread. Because people who love gossip often "cut the head and the tail", it was later spread that Xiao Liu said that Xiao Zhang was going to change jobs and lead the inspection work. , I happened to hear the employees talking about Xiao Zhang's job hopping.

The next day, the leader deliberately called Xiao Zhang to the office and questioned whether Xiao Zhang wanted to change jobs? How did you make such a fuss? Is it "the temple is too small to hold your big Buddha"? Xiao Zhang couldn't hold back a word for a long time, and he regretted introducing his work to Xiao Liu, which made him in a dilemma.

1. No matter how good the relationship between colleagues is, some things cannot be said.

From the above stories, we can see that no matter how good the relationship between colleagues is, some things cannot be said. Whether you are for the good of colleagues or not, it is best not to talk about things that involve interests, because it is easy to "get on fire".

Xiao Zhang originally wanted to help his colleague Xiao Liu, but he didn't expect Xiao Liu to "sell" him. Although Xiao Liu didn't do it on purpose, from the final result, Xiao Liu did give Xiao Zhang to him. The pit is miserable.

Second, the resignation cannot be said in advance.

The most taboo thing about resigning in the workplace is to tell your colleagues about your resignation before the day you officially resign. As the saying goes, "there is no airtight wall in the world." If you tell others about your resignation, it will definitely reach the ears of the leader.

Once the leader learns that you are going to resign, he will consider it. Anyway, you are all about to resign, and there is no need to invest resources in you, so you will be excluded by the leader.

Three, make a fortune in silence.

The reason why smart people get along well is because they understand the principle of "making a fortune in silence", like Xiao Liu in the story, if she can bury Xiao Zhang's introduction in her heart, she will not only be able to switch jobs smoothly, but also not. Cause unnecessary trouble to good friend Xiao Zhang.

In fact, no matter what it is, as long as it involves interests in the workplace, the fewer people who know it, the better.