Female college students have an epiphany one year after graduation: instead of overcoming difficulties, it is better to make use of strengths and avoid weaknesses

Xiaoli has been a silent and introverted girl since she was a child. Unless she is dealing with people she knows very well, she will blush when she speaks, and her voice is also very low. Others can't hear what Xiaoli is saying unless they are close to her.

Xiaoli majored in accounting in college. After graduation, she should have been looking for a job in accounting. Her family also supports Xiaoli. After all, doing accounting work is also suitable for her meticulous and calm personality.

However, Xiaoli had other plans. She decided to sell insurance. Why did she sell insurance? The reason is very simple. She saw that several of her friends made a lot of money by selling insurance, and they lived a good life.

Moreover, Xiaoli also really wants to use this job to exercise her eloquence and overcome her shortcomings of poor speech. Since she was too introverted, she was laughed at by many people and suffered a lot of losses. Xiaoli did not want to use her introverted character. character for a lifetime.

Xiaoli vowed in her heart that she must "overcome difficulties" and become a cheerful person. Moreover, Xiaoli stubbornly believes that she is neither stuttering nor stupid. As long as she exercises for a period of time, she will definitely be able to overcome her weaknesses.

Xiaoli is a person who does what she says. She interviewed several insurance companies and was finally accepted by one company, so Xiaoli started her sales career.

In the first three months after Xiaoli joined her job, due to her introverted personality and poor communication skills, her work performance was very poor. If it weren't for one of Xiaoli's college classmates, she kindly introduced a few people to take care of her "business" and helped Xiaoli complete several tasks. Shan, she barely made it past the probationary period.

After becoming a full-time employee, Xiaoli regained her confidence, made a lot of preparations, and met many strangers, but she was often rejected indifferently. A person who can't even speak a word is still doing sales? wasting my time!

Time flies, and a year has passed in the blink of an eye. Xiaoli has encountered too many difficulties and embarrassments in her workplace experience this year. However, Xiaoli did not "overcome the difficulties", but became more unconfident, flinched.

Xiaoli felt that her career in sales had failed too much. If she continued like this, let alone making a lot of money, even her most basic living expenses could not be guaranteed.

Xiao Li reflects on her performance in the workplace this year, and thinks that she is always competing with her own weaknesses, that she is very unhappy, and is always troubled by frustration. Although people often say that they want to challenge themselves and win a more exciting life, the reality is very "skinny" and makes them embarrassed. After thinking about it, Lisi finally decided to quit her job of buying insurance and do what she is good at - accounting.

Soon after, Xiaoli found a job in financial management in a private company. The job was very smooth and can be described as "like a fish in water". A year later, because of her serious work attitude, Xiaoli did not make any mistakes. The leaders were very satisfied and gave Xiaoli a promotion and a raise.

In fact, in real life, there are many professionals who have similar experiences with Xiaoli and compete with their own weaknesses, but in the end, they did not overcome themselves, but ended in a crushing defeat, which greatly damaged their vitality.

This kind of approach is "truthful" in a good way, and a lack of "self-knowledge" in a bad way. You should know your own weaknesses the most, and confronting reality with your own weaknesses is tantamount to hitting a stone with an egg.

If you want to become an elite in the workplace, you should be good at avoiding weaknesses and making full use of your strengths. If you don't believe me, you can go and see the good colleagues around you. They are all good at promoting their strengths, rather than exposing their weaknesses. Everyone's talents are different, as long as you maximize your potential and use your strengths, you can win success.