Drinking can also 'know people', through these two phenomena, you can see the true face of others at a glance
No matter how good your drinking is, you will have to attend some dinners for various reasons from time to time. After all, the social interaction of adults is often accompanied by drinks.
Friends who often attend dinner parties know that we can often see a person's true face through an ordinary glass of wine. "The quality of wine is the quality of the person." No matter how deep a person's city is, it is easy to reveal the true character in the atmosphere of alcohol.
Some people drink a lot, but they don't drink it themselves. When others are about to get drunk, they become active. They have to get others drunk and like to see others make a fool of themselves; Others drink more. Drinking alcohol can also "know people". Through these two phenomena, we can see through the true face of others at a glance!
1. "Tell the truth after drinking", revealing the true colors.
The drunk self is another hidden self, "drinking strong cowards", and at this time will say some things that are usually afraid to say.
- A person who is usually taciturn suddenly becomes eloquent after drinking, indicating that this person does not use language to express his heart to others and is not good at interacting with others when he is usually socializing. And after drinking, their brains were numbed by alcohol, and they were free to express their true inner thoughts without timidity and restraint.
Under normal circumstances, if you become the "confidence" object of such a person, it means that he has a good impression of you, and even trusts you, because they will not easily tell their feelings and thoughts to people who have a bad relationship.
- If a person likes to joke with people after drinking, and the jokes are all positive, it means that he always pays attention to the positive aspects of life and likes to spread happiness everywhere. As the so-called "Jin Zhu Zhe Chi", it is recommended that you become friends with such people. Even in the face of difficulties and pains in life, they will maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, and this attitude will have a positive impact on you.
If a person is usually calm, everything is orderly, and there is not much emotional fluctuation, but after drinking, his words and deeds are agitated, and he even cries, which shows that he has accumulated too much pressure in his usual life and work. For various reasons, I have been suppressing myself, and I can't get the chance to indulge, so I can only rely on drinking to vent. Such people are often sensitive and narrow-minded, care about other people's opinions, and always suspect that others are speaking ill of him behind his back.
If a person becomes very angry after drinking, throws alcohol madly, slaps the table hard, and throws things, even if someone comes up to persuade him, he will see no one's pleasing to the eye and be unconvinced. Such people have strong self-esteem, but are often worried that people will look down on them, are very easily excited and are very dissatisfied with life, and live life with a pessimistic attitude.
Second, through the action of drinking to see people's character and heart.
do you know? The action of drinking will also reveal a person's character, such as the following 4 actions:
Some people will cover the mouth of the cup with their hands when drinking. On the surface, it seems that there is nothing abnormal. In fact, they often take the opportunity to do some small actions, either drinking half of it, secretly pouring half of it, or stealing the pillars and replacing the mineral springs. Pour water into wine glass. In short, people who do this kind of action often show that they don't want to drink anymore. They are also good at disguising in life, often giving people an unpredictable impression.
Some people like to hold the whole wine glass tightly in their palms when drinking, as if they are afraid that others will steal his wine glass. This type of role does not belong to the kind of eager performance at the wine table, but knows how to keep a low profile in the early stage, and when everyone else is drinking about the same, it will be "later attacking" and launch a real offensive. These types of people are generally low-key and introverted.
Some people not only like to hold the wine glass tightly when drinking, but also press the mouth of the glass with their thumbs. When others toast him, he will also use this gesture to retaliate to the other party. Such people are usually outgoing, very forthright, and dare to love and hate. In social activities, they often play the role of active atmosphere, have strong offensiveness, and easily become the focus of everyone's attention.
Some people seem to be worried that the wine glass will fall when they drink, and they will grab the wine glass with both hands. These people are more introverted, humble and not good at words. Often sits sullenly alone, leaving the impression that others seem to be full of worries. And he rarely took the initiative to toast, most of the time in a passive state. The author once attended a company welcome dinner, and I met such a colleague. He sat next to me and hardly took the initiative to say a word to me.